The New Man

Do you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal? In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process. In this video: Lacking follow through on the important things Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies Comparing ourselves to others Putting others on a pedestal Looking for the “secret sauce”, hacks, or cheat codes Also: Building confidence through consistency Staying the course Making sure goals don’t drive you into the ground Getting through the tough stuff The key to peace of mind https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/build-confidence You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Are you following the herd or taking the lead? What’s driving your chronic dissatisfaction and frustration? And how can rubbing people the wrong way be an indicator that you’re on the right track? Heroic Public Benefit Corporation founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 2 in our series. Today we talk about trolls, anger, and using our deep fear of being misunderstood for a greater good. When we see someone do the extraordinary, most of the time we only see the impressive outcomes while the gritty, uncomfortable, awkward stuff stays in the shadows. This series is a behind the scenes look as Brian undergoes his own hero’s journey to bring Heroic into the world. As a coach, I help people navigate this uncertain, challenging terrain everyday, and my hope is that by witnessing Brian’s ups and downs, we can take away some wisdom for our own journey’s. At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic. In this interview: Why do we criticize people who are more courageous than us? How to tell if you’re playing the victim? How can anger and criticism be used for good? Are you defensive or curious? Can you learn to challenge others without vitriol? Plus: Ken Wilber “No one is 100% wrong.” How to address toxic comments on social media? What kills a democracy? What is Cosmic Rage? How to combat the erosion of common decency? And: What’s beyond attention economics? Why become a Public Benefit Corporation? How do you act in a sacred environment vs social media? What’s the difference between anger and aggression? How to feel more full and satisfied on a daily basis? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/brian-johnson-heroic-2 You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Make the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Do you worry that you’re on the wrong path in life? Are you focused on goals and outcomes or doing what you actually enjoy? And what if there’s more to life than chasing money or the need to be important? Before Doc G became a writer and host of the Earn and Invest podcast, he was like many doctors. But after years spent chasing outcomes, money and building an ideal version of himself, he realized he was in a trap. Today we discuss how he reinvented his personal and professional life based on what gave him a sense of aliveness and meaning. We’ll also dive into our fixation on money, safety, and why death can be a wonderful teacher. In this interview: Is life forcing you to change? Who are you if you’re not chasing money? Joseph Campbell on feeling alive Doing things to prove we’re enough Why ego gets in the way of meaning or purpose Plus: Why Doc G got depressed once he was financially free Thinking if you were someone else you’d be free once and for all Redefining your life based on what brings aliveness and meaning Chasing outcomes instead of enjoying the process Dealing with resistance and self-doubt Searching for “hacks” to avoid discomfort, risk, and vulnerability And: How dealing with death on a regular basis impacts our ability to live What is hospice? What is the dying process like? How does spirituality affect our ability to die peacefully? The fear of dying with peace instead of regrets https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/doc-g-earn-invest You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Do you have a sense that something is rumbling in your soul, trying to get out? Do you feel confused about who you are professionally? And are you waiting until you feel ready, or are you building the world you want to live in? Philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson is back. This time he’s set his sights on an ambitious goal to create a company that will change the world. The Heroic Public Benefit Corporation is a platform that will provide the tools for optimal living as well as an online community that will become the answer to The Social Dilemma. At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic. Now if you’re like most of us, you may have a sense that there’s something calling you to the next level of your life. Perhaps you’re not clear about the role you’re supposed to play or maybe you just don’t want to rock the boat. Brian is no different. And so as Heroic finds it’s footing in the world, he’s agreed to pull back the curtain and let us in on his personal process. Throughout this series of interviews, we’ll ride along with Brian through his hero’s journey — and find our own gold along the way. In this interview: Heeding the call to go big Dealing with ambivalence “Am I a philosopher or a CEO?” “What one can be, one must be.” Maslow Walt Whitman, “Simmering, simmering, simmering…to a boil” “What kind of world do I want to live in and what am I going to do about it?” Building the answer to “The Social Dilemma” Plus: Confronting self-doubt Meditation to increase personal power Phil Stutz and leaning into the things that scare you Does pain or discomfort mean something is wrong? Wanting to find the hack, cheat code, or short cut How do we know if we’re on the “wrong” path? And: Trusting yourself instead of doing what makes others feel comfortable The key to becoming anti-fragile Hustling and success that makes us “weak” Burning ourselves up and out in order to impress others Is ambition a dirty word? Living and working in service of something bigger than yourself No more waiting to lead https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/brian-johnson-heroic You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

John Jantsch (The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur) discusses how our deeper values play a role in our success. If you’re tired of the typical, hyper-achievement BS that passes for business advice, then this conversation will be a breath of fresh air. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/Self-reliant-entrepreneur-john-jantsch You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Neil Strauss (“The Truth”, “The Game”) discusses the gritty truth about his experiences with infidelity, sex rehab, sex clubs, open relationships — you name it. Enjoy this classic interview from The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/neil-strauss-the-truth You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

We revisit Barry Michels’ classic interview on The New Man Podcast. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/barry-michels-tools-coming-alive You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Not everybody gets to be king. What’s the mindset difference between a leader and a follower? Are you a king hiding out as a knight? And how do we define success on our own terms? In this short lesson, we explore the major mindset differences between a leader and a follower. We discuss why so many of us are “kings in hiding,” as well as some practical tools to own our creative, visionary energy in service of something greater than ourselves. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/difference-between-leader-follower You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Finding motivation beyond fear. Why underachievers and overachievers are typically driven by fear. Developing self leadership skills to get out of feast or famine and “never enough.” Also: turning pro, finding flow, and tips to follow through. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/motivation-beyond-fear-underachievers-overachievers You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

No More Mr. Nice Guy (Dr. Robert Glover) What is Nice Guy Syndrome? Why do nice guys struggle in relationships and work? Plus, the four steps for getting out of Nice Guy Syndrome. (This is a replay of a previous episode.) https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/no-more-mr-nice-guy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Why we get stuck in unsatisfying relationships. Understanding the purpose of your relationship, tips for creating more alignment so you don’t have to settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/relationship-struggles You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

What’s the point of meditation? How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity? And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people? Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice. In this video: Why bother meditating? Why your hobby isn’t a meditation Flow states vs meditative states Different types of meditation Developing the “witness” or mindfulness Plus: A basic overview for how to meditate Meditating in a room full of farting people The upside to having a consistent meditation practice How meditation helps us become better leaders Become the “chairman of the board” in our minds https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/how-to-meditate-for-mindfulness You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Steven Pressfield The War of Art. Ready to turn pro and do the work? Legendary author Steven Pressfield talks about beating resistance, getting out of your own way, and finding your calling. This is a replay of the classic interview from The New Man Podcast. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Are you busy but still feel like you’re not doing enough? Does it seem like it’s all on you to keep things on track? And do you think that being more productive would solve all of these problems? Today we explore the possibility that our desire for greater productivity may be rooted in fear and delusion. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Are you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media? Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing political views? And what if it’s possible that we’re being manipulated to believe this funhouse mirror version of reality? Today we take a look at some practical ways we can reclaim our power and peace of mind while the media and masses act like turd tossing toddlers. Feel free to keep whatever ideas work for you and discard the rest. In this interview: Tripp’s history in the dark underbelly of politics Why we’re far more similar than different Why some actively want to “divide and conquer” How to tell when we’re being manipulated Ways we can drop the drama and focus on solutions instead You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

A quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

We revisit one of Mark Manson’s interviews on The New Man Podcast. Do you ever feel like you must be living your life the wrong way? Do you compare yourself to others and then feel like shit because you believe they have something you don’t? And is it possible that your frustration may be rooted in a hidden belief that you’re entitled to more than you’re getting? Mark Manson wrote a book called The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck. He’s here to tell us why many believe being average is a failure and why we’d be better off if we weren’t so focused on being so special. In this interview: What the title of his book really means “Don’t be special. Don’t be unique.” Do you have bad values that are driving you nuts? Why striving for a positive experience creates a negative experience Plus: Why learning how to accept negative experiences is the path to what you truly want Using personal development to escape negativity and vulnerability “If life is hard then I must be doing it wrong” How to tell if you’re entitled You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

What’s killing your motivation? Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional? And why do so many fathers and husbands forget how to feel alive? Today we’re going to discuss how to rebuild our inner fire and why too much of a good thing is not a good thing. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

We revisit one of Kamal Ravikant’s classic interviews on The New Man Podcast. Can you actually learn how to build confidence and get in the zone where good fortune seems to flow your way? Is being happy or content for losers? And are you creating what you really want or are you just avoiding failure? “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It” author and renaissance man Kamal Ravikant is here to discuss the dangers of being driven by fear plus a simple practice to build confidence and bounce back after a challenge. In this interview: How is fulfillment different than being happy? How to build confidence Why things just seem to go your way when you're not really trying Plus: The difference between self-love and narcissism The danger of a "finish line" mentality When failure is okay How to tell if you're being driven by a fear of failure You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

What if life and work could be less draining? Do you ever catch yourself taking things too seriously? And what if you didn’t depend on fear or scarcity for motivation? Coach, speaker, and author Jason Goldberg is here to discuss the dangers of taking ourselves too seriously. We dive into what life could look like if we weren’t afraid of negative emotions, the real power that comes from putting fear into perspective, and why true peace of mind comes from remembering that we can take a punch. In this interview: The importance of play and humor How being serious kills our creativity Goofiness vs enthusiasm Dealing with anxiety, stress, and depression “Am I always going to feel this way?” Plus: Remembering that we’ll eventually be okay “A clear calm mind knows exactly what to do next” — Byron Katie The myth of “burning the boats” What if you weren’t afraid of your feelings? How do you impact others in a positive way? Referenced in this interview: The problem with Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill Brian Johnson’s Philosopher’s Notes - Click here for Brian’s note on Tripp’s This Book Will Make You Dangerous (https://www.dropbox.com/s/jhq8g6q3rnc8oay/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous.pdf?dl=0) Dr. Peter Gray’s work on play (link to podcast) Alan Watts “The opposite of serious is sincere.” Being attracted to Byron Katie You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

We revisit Ryan Holiday’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. Do you think some folks are just magically able to bounce back from adversity or did they just practice something you can learn, too? Do you think other people are successful because they’ve figured out a way to avoid problems? And what can you do the next time life serves you up an unexpected challenge? Ryan Holiday is here to discuss how you can turn adversity into advantage and why the obstacle is the way. In this interview: -How getting clear about what you can and cannot control gives you power -Why chasing perfection is paralyzing you -Why anyone can learn to face problems and move through obstacles Plus: -Why it’s time to stop avoiding the things that scare you -How the stories you tell yourself determine what’s going to happen -Why true power and bravery may not appear the way you think it should You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

How would a scientist approach getting stronger and leaner? Is cardio getting in the way of your fat loss goals? And do we really need things to be a struggle in order to prove that we’re smart, special, or strong? Dr. John Jaquish is a scientist, inventor, and author of “Weight Lifting is a Waste of Time: So is Cardio, and There’s a Better Way to Have the Body You Want.” He’s very outspoken about how the fitness industry is a failure, and he believes he has the scientific data to back up his claims. He invented the X3 home fitness product which can fit in a bag. He claims that, along with an unconventional diet, by using this thing for only 10 minutes a day you can have the body of someone who spends hours in the gym every week. Full disclosure: I don’t own the X3 product at this time, and I was not compensated in any way for conducting this interview. In this interview: Why is weight lifting a waste of time from scientific perspective? How does cardio keep you fat? Why “no pain, no gain” is outdated Why muscle soreness has nothing to do with a “good” workout The 99% failure rate of the fitness industry Plus: A complete workout in only ten minutes? Why some folks make life harder than it needs to be Eating 4 steaks everyday Working with Tony Robbins on OsteoStrong How to knock a deer out of your garden You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

We revisit Tim Ferriss’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. In this conversation, the 4-Hour Workweek and 4-Hour Body author discusses how to learn anything quickly, dealing with fear and failure, how to gain confidence, and the mindset for success. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Did you have a terrifying experience when you learned how to swim? Does learning a difficult task feel the same as doing it well? And what life lesson can we learn from cheesy 80’s action movies? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we talk about the desire to quit, the magical, hollywood montage, and my covert black ops swimming lesson. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Should we give up or stick it out? Learning something vs doing something well Old school “tough love” swimming lessons Why we bail when we’re in the learning phase How to embrace the parts the make others quit You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do you depend on motivation or confidence to do what’s best for you? What if you’re stuck because you don’t know what to do? And why do kids suck? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we take a quick look into the myth of motivation, the best way to find confidence and clarity, and why it’s important to face the fact that we all suck from time to time. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Are you waiting to feel passionate or confident before you make a change? How to take action even if you’re not motivated How clarity can be a myth The danger of researching or gathering information How to create clarity and certainty Plus: Why do kids suck? Success looks like failure in the middle Did you stop learning when you finished school? How to embrace the learning process Are you going to play defense for the rest of your life? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do you believe you have commitment issues? Why do we sabotage ourselves? And how can we overcome analysis paralysis so that we can start taking meaningful action today? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, I’m going to share the reasons why we hit the brakes when we’re trying to make a positive change, and we’ll also begin to understand the invisible force of resistance so that it doesn’t keep us stuck. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Why won’t a man commit? What keeps someone from committing? Why do we get stuck or fail at making a change? Why do we sabotage ourselves? What drives analysis paralysis, excuses, and resistance Plus: How can we learn to identify our resistance so that we don’t let it hold us back? Are you convinced something terrible might happen if you were to make a big change? What if the fear holding you back isn’t so bad after all? How can we get out of analysis paralysis and into action today? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

JP Bouvet is a world class drummer that has lived through one of my recurring nightmares — twice. In this talk we explore our fear of face planting in front of others, the importance of meaning in our work, and why he’s chosen to redefine himself professionally. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Comedian Kyle Kinane (Comedy Central, Trampoline in a Ditch) discusses why we need to laugh at ourselves, getting caught up in comparisons, and confronting our fear of rejection. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Jaimal Yogis (Saltwater Buddha, The Fear Project) on mindfulness, meditation, and riding emotional waves. Also discussed: fatherhood, common misconceptions about meditation, and the trap of trying to outrun what makes us uncomfortable. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

What if the fear of failure wasn’t the thing holding us back? Could the freedom we deeply want be available to us right now? And how could we quickly shift into a perspective that challenges us to play big? Today we’re going to zoom out and see our problems and lives from a perspective we rarely take. In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we’ll tap into a universal view to minimize fear in order to access greater freedom and power. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: What is freedom? What would life be like without proving and defending? The fear of failure Why we’re not a big deal — and we never will be Learning how to play big even though we are very small You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Erik Everhard, author of Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers has been in the porn industry for over 20 years. He’s had sex with over 4,000 women. Today we discuss what it was like to have such a unique career, how he ended up feeling lost, and how he found his way again after learning how to help others. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do you get pissed off when someone says something that goes against your values? Do you believe that negotiation is all about winning and getting the best of the other guy? And is calling someone out the best way to make positive change? Kwame Christian is the Director of the American Negotiation Institute which means he knows a thing or two about resolving conflicts and finding solutions. Today he’s going to share some basic tips that will help us navigate challenges online, at home, at work, and in our neighborhood. In this interview: How to approach difficult conversations “We’re always negotiating.” Why most conversations are doomed to fail The 3 main goals of any negotiation Why negotiations are 90% ego or emotionally driven Plus: Calling out vs calling in Why “calling out” typically backfires Virtue signaling and performing instead of persuading What to do if you’re actually trying to inspire change What’s the number one goal of power? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Does it seem scary to talk about race? How is racial tension similar to an uncomfortable Thanksgiving dinner? And what if the thing that would make a difference is much closer than we could imagine? Recently I learned a valuable lesson: that I could actually talk to my black friends about their experiences instead of making assumptions and relying on the media or some idealogical group to tell me what to say, think, or do. Having these individual conversations has been revelatory for many reasons — one of which was realizing again how much simply being curious and paying attention could have a huge impact. I learned that it was safe to ask questions and to simply listen. That I wouldn’t be attacked because I was white or if I didn’t get it politically correct. One of the conversations that cracked my world open was with my friend, Mark Palmer. He’s an author and corporate leadership consultant, and even though we’ve known each other for many years, I’ve never asked him about his experience as a black man because it didn’t feel comfortable or safe. I’m glad that I finally did. After that first conversation I asked him if he would be willing to record another one where we could explore this topic a bit further. I didn’t know what to expect, but I’m glad we managed to share so many laughs along the way. Enjoy. In this interview: Is it safe to talk about race? The media being a funhouse mirror version of reality The importance of psychological safety The importance of humanizing race instead of making it about groups The fear of “not getting it right” Plus: The difference between anger and aggression “Anger can’t be the only voice in the room.” When trying to “fix” something gets in the way Why listening is a superpower Why it’s okay to faceplant You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Have you ever wanted something so badly that you screwed it up? Why do our efforts to “get it right” usually end up with us getting it wrong? And how does fear block our ability to be more energized, creative, and bold? Today, we’re going to hear another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. In this excerpt you’ll hear how I found myself in a cinematic coffee shop shootout and why I almost blew up my marriage before it ever got off the ground. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: How our fear of screwing things up tends to screw things up. What kills our ability to be bold, playful, and creative How I survived a direct hit from a soy vegan latte with 3% dick sprinkles How my wife, Alyson saved our future marriage by humiliating me You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Have you ever felt that you’re waiting to do what you really want to do in life? How could the fact that we’re going to die, help us live more fully? And what are the two key elements needed for us to step fully into our power? Today, I want to share another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. First, you’ll go through a short exercise designed to help us create more alignment with what we truly want. And second we’ll discuss how giving away our power keeps us playing small. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Are you aligned? How to use your mortality to stop playing small Why be dead now? Tolerating the small stuff, scarcity, productivity issues 45 year old boys The (2) key elements required to step into our power You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex? Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?” And how can we make sure we don’t get stuck in a prey mentality? Today we’re going to listen in on a recent call I had with a coaching client. His work and sex life were feeling flat, so we explored some ways he could get out of his own way, stop playing it safe, and find that mojo again. In this interview: Feeling uninspired in our work and sex life Why playing it safe can kill our careers and relationships Trying to avoid being the “weird” guy The pressure of trying to “get it right” Are you aligned with what you want in life? Plus: Being a knuckle dragging romantic What keeps us in a prey mentality Nice guy syndrome What if it was okay to face-plant from time to time? How can post-it notes change your relationship? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

What does it mean to be dangerous? How can we ensure we don’t become grumpy, soft, and fragile old men? And could what you’re about to hear be the worst, most disgusting way to open a book? Today, I want to share an excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. This is the introduction where we take a very unconventional look at expectations and clarify why I throw most success how-to books in the trash. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this interview: What happened when I went to the butt doctor Why I throw most success how-to books in the trash Is the pursuit of success making us weak? How expectations kill our peace of mind Are we playing a game we can’t win? The trap of seeking comfort and safety once and for all You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

With so much uncertainty right now, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings that arise? What if it actually all came crashing down? What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare? Our brains are constantly scanning for threats — most of which never come true, but this constant worrying can kill the enjoyment of our short time to be alive. Today I’m sharing a recent group coaching call where, instead of running away from these scary feelings we chose to do something else instead. In this interview: Clarifying what’s at stake Getting hijacked by our fear Phil Stutz “Only the dead survive.” Tapping into a power we rarely recognize Learning to watch the theater in our minds Plus: How to pivot out of our fear Why trying to run away from fear creates more suffering What happens when we relax our need to control everything? The power of brotherhood How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do we have to depend on fear for motivation? Can we learn how to put scarcity and pressure into perspective? And how can we learn to forge our own path instead of following the herd? Today, my wife Alyson and I discuss how fear can serve us — or work against us. On many levels we’re being challenged. For many this challenge is simply a matter of being uncomfortable or bored. Others are experiencing great uncertainty with regards to their professions and financial well-being. And then there are those who are being confronted by mortality itself. We can get caught up in the collective freak out or we can use this period as a wake up call. It’s a time to zoom out and reflect. The men I’m coaching all around the world are seeing this challenging time as an opportunity. It’s an opportunity for us to assess our lives and how we’re choosing to live them. Are our professions and relationships and lifestyle choices aligned with our deepest values? Or does today’s challenge help us see that it’s time to course correct? Instead of sleepwalking through life or settling for whatever gets slopped on to our plate, we can use this opportunity to tap into our deep desire. Instead of waiting for the perfect plan or the perfect time or the perfect opportunity, we can shift gears, take smart action, and create alignment with what truly matters today. No more waiting. No more excuses. Most men won’t do this. They’ll dismiss this opportunity. They’ll let fear get the best of them. They’ll refuse responsibility. But that doesn’t mean we have to live like most men. Today’s conversation was recorded before the Covid-19 virus became the major focus here in the US. Regardless, the core ideas of this discussion still apply when it comes to how we confront fear, scarcity, and pressure in our day-to-day lives. In this interview: Creating from fear, scarcity, and pressure Rat-racing and magical finish lines Why fear glorifies hustling How fear serves us and how it makes us weak We don’t have to freak ourselves out in order to be successful Nothing to prove Plus: Depriving ourselves now in order to get what we want later Get out of dumb goals and create smart goals Why a pain in the ass is valuable information Why perfectionism is a defense Why fixating on ourselves kills peace of mind and meaning You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

Do you think more success and status are the keys to lasting fulfillment? What happens when our achievements leave us feeling empty? And what does it mean to be dangerous? Today, my wife, Alyson and I explore a life beyond constant comfort and how most men are stuck in a trap — striving to play a game they can’t win. In this interview: Alyson recovers from her bathroom noises Getting over ourselves can be painful A threat to our self image feels like a threat to our lives What it means to be responsible for your life Tolerating bullshit vs saying “no” Plus: Settling because “this is just the way it is” Blaming others and playing the victim Do victims enjoy feeling powerless? Why someone with a victim mentality isn’t coachable The addiction to sadness and suffering And: When success leaves us feeling empty “What’s wrong with me? I thought I’d feel fulfilled.” What would feel expansive? What do I want more than being comfortable all the time? Developing a guidance system based on what you value most You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com

If you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way? Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment? And what’s so wrong with trying to live happily ever after? Today, my wife Alyson and I explore the deep-seated fears that keep us stuck, the ways we operate from a prey mentality, and Alyson’s embarrassing bathroom experience. In this interview: “Why won’t a man commit?” There’s no such thing a commitment-phobe Competing commitments (Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey) What keeps us from having alignment with our values? When we believe that there are monsters under our bed Plus: The danger of “set it and forget it” Identifying our prey mentality The shadow to personal growth and self-help We’re forgetting how powerful we are And: Why seeking “easy street” is a trap Exoneration with Phil Stutz and Barry Michels Fragile egos and the “need” to prove our self worth Alyson’s body sounds You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com

Do you want to make a change but believe you need the perfect plan before you take action? Does your work or salary or title determine your value as a man? And how do we know when it’s time to make a big change? Today, my wife, Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the episode entitled A Bold Way to Start a Relationship. We explore how I went from feeling very confident to very lost; how I spent years dicking around while waiting for the perfect plan; and how I finally pulled my head out of my ass and got back on track. In this interview: Stepping out of our comfort zone Being a small fish in a big pond When our work determines our self worth Dealing with uncertainty and self-doubt Waiting for the perfect time and the perfect plan Plus: Stuck in excuses Trying to predict the future Refusing the call to adventure Moving from “pre-f**k it” to “post-f**k it” Getting out of the bleachers and into the game You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

Do you face your challenges alone or do other men have your back? How does our desire for a plan or vision become a trap? And what’s the key to making a commitment in relationships? Alyson and I continue where we left off in the episode entitled, Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? Today we talk about making bold moves, the value of a men’s group, and how I almost killed our relationship by acting like a nice guy. In this interview: Outgrowing a split lifestyle Starting Tripp’s first men’s group The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida A bold way to start a relationship Plus: Moving from discomfort into aliveness When trying not to screw it up starts to screw it up Wanting the truth vs comfort Making a smart commitment Waiting for the perfect plan is a trap You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

Have you ever suffered from “imposter syndrome”? Are you okay with simply chasing money or do you want your work to be meaningful, too? And how often do you tell yourself, “I will figure this out”? Today, The Middle Finger Project author Ash Ambirge is here to discuss how she went from growing up in a trailer park to middle class success to sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot with only $26 to her name to eventually making seven figures. In this interview: Growing up in a trailer park Being mentally tough Being willing to rock the boat Striving for middle class Why becoming “normal” was so disappointing Plus: Dealing with imposter syndrome The feeling of “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do next.” Doing work you’re proud of Wanting our work to align with our values Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life And: Ash’s “sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot” story “I will figure it out.” The key to being “Unf*ckwithable” The trouble of not having your own money Learning how to provide value You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life? Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship? And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change? Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut. In this interview: Living a split life “Stop being a spoiled brat.” Focusing on problems vs solutions Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life Plus: Have you outgrown your life? The Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer Shifting from bitching to focusing on what you want Are you defensive or curious? The fear of being broke and alone And: “Do you feel like you’re settling?” The myth: “I have to blow up my life in order to make a change.” Are you being lulled to sleep? Waiting for the perfect, safe plan The phone call that changed Tripp’s life Interviews and videos discussed: David Emerald interview Drama Triangle video You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

How important is it for you to be in control? Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values? And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply? Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside. In this interview: Does Alyson have a fart fetish? Being a control freak Trying to outrun my emotional world Being afraid of women Navigating an emotional minefield Plus: Why I went to therapy Dealing with loss Considering suicide The difference between relief and peace of mind “The peace I was deeply wanting was on the other side of that thing I was avoiding.” And: Ken Wilber’s The Marriage of Sense and Soul Being out of alignment with inner values “They’re going to think I’m weird.” Playing it safe professionally “Is this it? What now? Why can’t I just be happy here?” You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

Lebron James spends $1 million dollars per year on his health. What do you spend to ensure that your body doesn’t hold you back? Functional Medicine Health Consultant Jon Mitchell is here to challenge the dogmatic, cookie cutter approaches so that you can dial in the unique protocol that works best for your body. In this interview: Why so many are settling for aches, pains, and low energy Why regular docs aren’t always the best resource Why chasing your problem with supplements isn’t sustainable Why cookie cutter diets don’t work for everyone Erectile dysfunction as it relates to your health Plus: Are you a liability to yourself, performance, and quality of life? Why health is the vehicle for having the life you want Peace of mind knowing that your body is on track Playing the amateur or choosing to turn pro Cutting through the noise of online experts and gurus and diets You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

Tripp Lanier discusses facing our fears of failure and criticism. Here are a few brief lessons learned from legendary Rush drummer, Neil Peart about living life on your own terms. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

As someone who makes a living coaching others to accomplish goals, Tripp discusses how our goals can become a trap. Plus: Glorifying busy-ness, how our mindless pursuit “more” is lazy, and why our need to prove that we’re not a failure is making us weak. In this interview: The trap of proving we’re not a failure Why protecting, pleasing, and proving kills our peace of mind Glorifying busy-ness Trying to carry 6 gallons in a 5 gallon bucket Plus: The shadow side of goals Having a great life that’s unfulfilling The difference between comfort and peace Using your emotions as information Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

After coaching successful men for over 15 years, Tripp boils down what kills our freedom, aliveness, and peace of mind. Does success really mean we’re stronger? How can we get off the hamster wheel of “more, more, more”? And what would it mean to define success and strength on your own terms? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell. My friend Eric Goodman is the creator of Foundation Training. He’s built a global movement by empowering people to overcome back pain. But like many passion-driven businesses, behind the scenes it’s been extremely challenging. Today we talk about growth, failure, chaos, and the fantasy that building a business around your passion should somehow be a cakewalk. #foundationtraining #doafounder #mindset #entrepreneur #business #motivation #success #entrepreneurship Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Are you bored with the whole left vs right, culture war gridlock? What if there was a way that this dumpster fire could make us stronger? And could you possibly find common ground with your bigot uncle this holiday season? Jeff Salzman (The Daily Evolver) discusses Ken Wilber’s integral theory and how it can help us navigate our conflicted world. #integral #kenwilber #culturewar Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

David Perel gave up his dream of being a pro racing driver and became a tech startup founder. But dreams die hard. In this crazy story, David recalls his bold (and sometimes reckless) choices to go against the odds to race at the highest level. #granturismosport #gtsport #ferrari #lamborghini #motorsport #blancpaingtseries #lemans Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Jon Zazula (Heavy Tales) and his wife Marsha are legends in the metal music industry. With Megaforce Records they discovered Metallica and launched a genre of music that marches on to this day. That said, the road to fame and fortune was a very rocky road. Today, Jonny Z and I discuss his path from Wall Street to jail to metal hall of fame. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Could changing the way you masturbate change your life? Somatic Sex Educator Alyssa Morin discusses settling for lousy pleasure, what hipster beers can teach us about sex, and why trying to be a “sexual master” often backfires. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

How to face fear. Understanding the 3 phases of a challenge — When we’re in the creative process and we’re looking at the next scary step it’s helpful to understand what we’re really facing. Often this is where we drain ourselves and get stuck because we can only see our challenge from one perspective instead of three. In this quick podcast we break down our challenge into its three main parts so we can take action. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Brian Johnson of Philosophers Notes and Optimize.me discusses perfectionism, the inner critic, understanding the whole point of life, and why he blames Tripp Lanier for his $2 million dollar business “experiment.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

What is your Zone of Genius and how do you find it? Do you have to blow up your life if you want to reinvent yourself? And why do some folks sabotage their success? Guest: Gay Hendricks (The Big Leap) Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Brian Portnoy, author of Geometry of Wealth discusses the difference between being rich and wealthy, funding contentment, and answering the question, “Am I going to be okay?” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Dr. Michael Gervais is a high performance psychologist who works with the Seattle Seahawks and Fortune 100 companies. Today we pick apart the myths of being a high performer, understand the inner critic, and reveal the key ingredient to enjoying the life we want. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Paul Ollinger (Crazy Money Podcast) busted his ass, cashed out of Facebook, and became a stand up comic. Today we’re going to talk money being a major motivator, how our pursuit of a stress free life can burn us out, and why committing to success often makes us weak. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Teo Alfero The Wolf Connection: Creating a life of meaning and heart. Leaving home to work with Carlos Castaneda, building a wolf sanctuary, and rigorous shamanistic trainings. Plus: what keeps us from living extraordinary lives, dealing with spiritual forces beyond our understanding. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Robert Glover Dating Essentials for Men — Dating advice for guys who don’t want to be jerks. Finding high quality women, testing for interest, how to end dead end relationships with respect, and dealing with sh*t tests. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Stop making excuses and quickly pivot into power. There are 3 main excuses that hold us back and have us play small. In this quick talk coach Tripp Lanier talks about how to identify resistance, confidence, motivation, and wisdom vs knowledge. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he’s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked. Today we talk about why he’s out to slaughter our sacred cows, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success was so difficult for him. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

If you’re one of those guys who is struggling to find what has you feel alive, it’s probably because you’ve forgotten how to truly play. Discussed: How studies show why play is the key to leadership, innovative thinking, problem solving, and doing what has us feel alive. Plus: Why our highly structured, competitive environment is making us weaker, depressed, and breeding us to become robots. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Jayson Gaddis discusses Relationship Warrior, why we tolerate draining relationships, fighting, and a lack of sex. Are we doomed to be dissatisfied as the wimp or the posturing jerk? Plus, why erectile dysfunction most likely isn’t a medical issue. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Jon Mitchell put a lot of time, money, and energy into his career and then realized it wasn’t for him. Instead of staying stuck, Jon hired a coach, stopped hiding out, and created his own opportunities. In this interview we talked about how he shifted his mindset, turned pro, and took bold action to shift his career path. Also: How Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine Health Consultant helps people optimize their bodies, brains, and energy and combats chronic disease. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Relationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. What is she not telling you? Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Intuition and Trusting Your Gut - Rick Snyder author of Decisive Intuition: Use Your Gut Instincts to Make Smart Business Decisions. Why denying our instincts makes us weak. How Snapchat’s Evan Spiegel lost billions by using intuition incorrectly. How to use your gut to be more powerful in life, work, and relationships. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

No Longer Passionate About Work? An excerpt from a coaching conversation with Tripp Lanier. In this call, we explore some of the reasons why my client was feeling stuck and unable to see any attractive professional opportunities in front of him. Plus: How our mindset determines whether we’ll stay stuck doing the same old thing or if we’ll expand into the next phase of our lives. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Jonathan Haidt thinks we constantly lie to ourselves as a way to rationalize emotional choices. So should we become Vulcans, living lives devoid of anything rewarding? Or can we tap into our emotions so that we’re more powerful? Plus we’ll also talk about how good intentions are creating a generation of fragile young people. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Do you depend on fear for motivation? Do you make progress but still feel anxious, tired, or under pressure? And is success really just a strategy to outrun the things that scare you? In this conversation with Craig Revord we talk about how he’s learned to find power, face major fears, and get off the hamster wheel all while growing his business. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

What if your wife asked you to go to an orgy? Rob Kandell (Unhidden) explores why so many guys are feeling drained and exhausted in our relationships and work. Also: Is it a challenging time to be a man? Plus how to reclaim power, energy, and confidence. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

In May of 2007 at the age of 49, Dave Baker, a competitive athlete and lifeguard, went through, let’s just say, an “incident”. This is his story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he refused to just “exist” after getting a second chance at life. Guest: Dave Baker, Wrightsville Beach Ocean Rescue Director Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Human guinea pig and bestselling author AJ Jacobs (Thanks a Thousand) returns to discuss what he’s learned from his latest long term experiment. This time he’s set out to explore what will make him less grouchy — and it all starts with a simple cup of coffee. Also: Year of Living Biblically, Drop Dead Healthy Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Why do we stay in jobs and marriages way past their due date? Why are loss and failure critical to future success? How do we unconsciously self sabotage? Tripp and a coaching client discuss how to become stronger after a business failure. Plus: Phil Stutz and “Only the dead survive.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Are your goals making you unhappy? Are you busting butt to create a future that may never exist? What do our fantasies tell us about what we truly want in life? Here’s a simple way we can learn how to tap into unconscious beliefs in order to strengthen our mindset. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

How to thrive as we age. Why guys can have a midlife crisis when they’re 30 or 50. Why hustling is often a symptom of an unhealthy mindset. Learning to master fear, uncertainty, and change. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Mission, Money, and Meaning. How to get your life together; How to identify the mindset that keeps us playing small; Where we find the most satisfaction; And how Joe Bernstein reinvented his life after divorce, career change, and losing 150 pounds. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

What’s the biggest threat to our coaching practice? And why can jerks make money? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/

Why do some of the “best” coaches go broke? What else do we need other than coaching skills to have a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/

What can we learn from a professional coach who experienced 10X growth within 18 months? And why are so few coaches unwilling to do what it takes to create a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/

What if you weren’t that big of a deal? What if your fear of failure was a waste of the precious time you have to be alive? Ideas for how to stop taking ourselves so seriously and make the most of our lives instead. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Rejection stings. And avoiding rejection will kill professional growth, too. Today we talk about ways to take the sting out of getting a “no”. Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/

Is it true we have to quit our job or jeopardize our family in order to create a big change? Let’s discuss resistance and the excuse that keeps us stuck at the starting line our entire lives. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Why aren’t you getting cool opportunities and referrals? Let’s talk about the Professional Friend Zone. Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches — Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/ Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

How one of Tripp’s coaching clients nearly pissed away millions because he was stuck in fear. What happens when we play not to lose vs focusing on what we want? Plus: learning to lead instead of micromanage. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Are you hoping one day you’ll be successful enough to finally feel free from life’s “dragons”? What’s the mindset to find lasting peace, freedom, and confidence? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Why is playing the victim the most natural thing we can do? And why is bitching, complaining and protesting a false sense of power? Learn the two basic keys to step out of chronic anxiety and disappointment. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/victim-mindset-anxiety Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Why is the pursuit of manliness a trap? Who are the only guys who care about being ‘manly’? And how do we learn how to play our own game? Also discussed: don Miguel Ruiz and domestication. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/manliness Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

What can Kenny Powers teach us about personal growth? Is optimizing your diet, meditation, mindset, and exercise a distraction from what’s most important? Here’s how to tell if you’re spinning your wheels. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/optimization-playing-small Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

When it comes to how we create our ideal lifestyle, relationship, and profession — are we acting like hunter or prey? Are we letting fear and urgency dilute our focus? Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/mindset-hunter-prey Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Why are some guys able to make amazing things happen while most will not? Instead of making excuses, what if we looked between our ears? In this episode we talk about how to tap into greater power and identify the things that hold us back. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/ask-for-help Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

When you’re facing a challenge do you hide out and withdraw from others? In this video we talk about why “tough guys” aren’t so smart when it comes to solving problems. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/ask-for-help Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Most guys are trying to find their big, magical purpose for life — the profession or calling that will make them plenty of money and getting up in the morning exciting. In this video I talk about why that’s a recipe for frustration plus what we can do instead to reveal what our purpose is without playing the victim. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/05/finding-your-purpose-in-life Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Beautiful bikini-clad women on the covers of magazines aren’t the only photoshopped BS that we’re consuming. Comparing ourselves to the distorted appearances of high performers is a recipe for feeling lousy, too. So how do we play our own game? When it comes to Purpose, how do we define what’s worth our time and energy? And how do we avoid the traps of FOMO, scarcity, and always needing more, more, and more along the way? Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/05/fomo-scarcity Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

How can you tell if you’re on the right path in life? What can you do if you believe you’re on the wrong path? In this video we discuss a simple tip to keep us from playing the victim. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Today we’re going to talk about goals, the hero’s journey, and what we can do to stay off the hamster wheel of scarcity and fear in our lives. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

What I learned from watching a guy get a blow job at the beach. What do our friends talk about when we’re not there? What keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns? And what do extraordinary guys do to keep it from happening to them? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

Why would your partner want to have sex with you? How are you penetrating the world? Healthy masculine power, nice guy syndrome, and a practice that sounds insane — except it works. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://thenewmanpodcast.com/resistance

How to tame our inner critic, what does self love in a practical way, how to be an ally to yourself, Kamal Ravikant - Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It

If you’re feeling anxiety, let’s talk about a quick way to create some ease while gaining a ton of power and energy. It just may not be the way you’d think it should be. Say no to tolerating and avoiding.

How to quickly become more focused and effective. Insights into why we’re busy spinning our wheels instead of getting stuff done.

Aubrey Marcus discusses open relationships, why (most) high achievers are driven by demons, life balance, finding power in surrender, how plant medicine rituals help him stay out of the traps that brings down so many other men. Want to CRUSH procrastination and mental resistance? Learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. Get started here: https://thenewmanpodcast.com/

Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power — What makes us believe that we have to achieve perfection or have the perfect plan? And what can we do to step into power?

Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we can do what’s most important.

A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what strengthens us, and how to stop making excuses.

Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?

Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professional level. How guys are selling themselves out by playing a role in order to be successful.

Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as men, forgetting out power, finding the beast within.

The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having better relationships, and the myth of being an alpha male.

Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal with it? Healthy ways to deal with sexual desire and power.

Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — the trap that comes from the need for external validation and comparing yourself to others. Tips for finding power, freedom, and playing your own game.

Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator - What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictable? Practical tips for keeping your sex life off of the back burner.

Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerful with others.

Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negativity.

Why do we remember specific moments and forget the majority of others? Can we design “defining” moments and experiences that change our lives? With Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments.

Part 6 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Part 5 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

Part 4 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/

“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Coming Alive) discuss how to have more energy, overcome your worst habits, what to do when you get knocked down, and the danger of getting your hopes up.

Part 3 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire

Part 2 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program.

Why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. An intro to Tripp Lanier's Authority Group Coaching program.

Mike Kelly Member Vault Founder discusses moving from a job to starting his own company, creating your own opportunities, having ballsy conversations, and how to stop “hiding out” professionally. - http://membervault.co

Family problems? Do “normal” families even exist? What can you do to stay in your power? Discussion with Eric Maisel PhD author of Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation. - http://ericmaisel.com

Joe De Sena Spartan Race CEO and author discusses grit, obstacle immunity, hacking, business success, and how to be tough as hell.

Akshay Nanavati discusses: tips for turning fear into power, PTSD, addiction, ultra-marathons, the Marines, and finding bliss thru fear aka Fearvana.

JP Sears How to Be Ultra Spiritual — Why you should get offended; Comedy; Sex, Tantra and Acro-Yoga; Finding a sense of purpose; Neediness; Spiritual Gurus.

Jaimal Yogis (All Our Waves Are Water) discusses why the 4 Hour Workweek Lifestyle is unfulfilling, Buddhism, escaping life’s problems, and comparing ourselves to others.

Alyson Lanier (relationship and intimacy coach) discusses: hot to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s time to leave the relationship.

Is anger management a bunch of BS? How can anger make us more powerful? Discussed: Anger vs aggression, Robert Augustus Masters, Equine Therapy

Shane Ramer from Sober Guy Radio shares his hero’s journey through addiction to recovery. Plus: mindset, living for something bigger than your ego

Robert Kandell created One Taste with Nicole Daedone. Discussed: How the company was devouring his life, how he dealt with doubt/uncertainty, and how he learned from personal and professional mistakes.

Tripp Lanier talks about how to overcome anxiety and move into power. Learn how to master dynamic tension, defeat powerlessness, and go all in.

Tripp Lanier talks about overcoming the fear of rejection and encourages you to stop avoiding NO so you can play at a higher level and feel more alive.

Tripp Lanier talks about how to grow your business by taking the focus away from trying to be ‘liked’ and instead focus on serving others.

Joseph Campbell's quote ‘Follow Your Bliss’, how it relates to making money, and how it doesn’t guarantee you won’t have challenges.

How ego is the enemy, how it shows up in self-deprecation and has you play small, and why you might be a jerk if you’re hiding out waiting to do good work.

Tripp Lanier talks about his experience with David Lee Roth at a strip club. Tips for how to get more energy, passion back into your life.

How to get out of your comfort zone and stop tolerating a life you don’t want. Tips to step out of your comfort zone and into uncertainty.

Tripp Lanier talks about learning how to sell yourself by taking responsibility to master your elevator pitch and tell your story so you can create cool opportunities.

Tripp Lanier talks the drama triangle, how to avoid drama and the time he wanted to have a 3-way on his honeymoon without his wife.

Tripp Lanier talks about the growth mindset, learning as a key to growth, and why you need a montage to achieve your goals

Don Miguel Ruiz Jr: Mastery of Self, how to stop taking things personally, personal power, scarcity mindset, and how men become domesticated.

Learn how to be a badass from Bruce Lee as Tripp Lanier talks about Bruce Lee philosophy and why being a badass requires you to be a whole person.

Stealing Fire Jamie Wheal discusses flow, ecstasis, startup founders at Burning Man, Navy SEALs using altered states to accelerate learning

Eric Davis Habits of Heroes: Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor discusses the trap of manliness, why most guys have no clue about strength, and what makes men weak.

Kamal Ravikant Rebirth: How to face your fears, forgive, use death as a motivator, stay out of victim mindset, and walk the Camino de Santiago.

Optimize Your Mood. What’s really causing your lousy moods? Dr Will Van Derveer helps us understand what the brain needs so you can feel amazing. Also: MDMA being used to treat PTSD.

Women and Sexual Harassment with Jeanine Becker. How to be an ally to women at work. When can you tell her a dirty joke without losing your job?

Mark Manson author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F discusses why it’s better to be average, entitlement, bad values vs good values, and trying to avoid negativity.

Daniel Priestley on being a Key Person of Influence, why personal growth won’t make you more money, and why self deprecation is another ego-trip.

Eric Davis Navy SEAL Sniper discusses Raising Men, lessons learned from SEAL training and taught to our sons and daughters.

Bill Shireman of Future 500 discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, being played by political polarization, and institutions demonizing one another.

What’s it like to go to prison? What can we learn from a guy who made a big mistake and then paid for it with years of his life? Plus the danger of only living for a better future.

Doing whatever it takes. Tony Bonnici discusses dyslexia, ADD, building a 7 figure business, and why he walked away from it all for a bigger mission.

Are you the shallow rat racer or the broke spiritual seeker? How does The New Man approach money, success, and power? Take the quiz.

Why guys get stuck in the "Professional Friend Zone," how to identify and stay out of the professional friend zone.

Avoiding lifestyle design professional failure: How I had my head up my butt, why it almost crushed my business, and how you can avoid this situation.

The 5 steps to Make Sure Your Work Doesn't Become a Trap. What it means to turn pro for entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and professionals.

Are you making the 5 mistakes that keep guys overworked, underpaid, and on a downward trajectory? Listen to find out.

What to do when work is draining and dissatisfying. For solopreneurs, entrepreneurs, professionals looking for more balance, alignment, and impact.

Dealing with conflict or confrontation, how to confront someone, how avoiding conflict kills your business and marriage, basic steps for engaging a conflict

Comedian W. Kamau Bell talks about laughing with the KKK, racism, how humor heals, and how to have awkward conversations that initiate change.

Finding purpose through physical pain, facing doubts, anxiety, the rat race. Also Dean Potter, Chris Hemsworth, and why your ideal lifestyle is much cheaper than you imagine.

Kute Blackson discusses the power of commitment, stealing food to survive, and how he pissed off his father in order to build his own life. Kute Blackson You Are The One.

Why high ambition and drive is often rooted in fear and insecurity. A powerful mindset shift for lasting freedom and power.

What’s really causing your money fears and stress? And why positive thinking isn’t going to help. Michael Neill Inside Out Revolution author.

Do you have a clear sense of purpose? What is your mission? And do you know what were you put on this Earth to do? How to find these answers.

Neil Strauss discusses the cost of dishonesty and what he’s learned from his journey through infidelity, sex addiction rehab, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, sex clubs, and now marriage and fatherhood. The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

Work, family, and life out of balance? Gerry Campbell shares his journey through the early days of the internet, chasing big money, and how he’s bringing it all back into balance.

Before Brian Smith made his millions, he was struggling to be the guy who stood above the rest. The truth? He was barely scraping by, $250K in personal debt, overweight, under slept, and very stressed out. What has he learned from chasing success and trying to stand out?

Philosopher Notes Brian Johnson discusses his business course correction, making a big change with your company or life and honoring the people you care about, the difference between quitting and course correcting.

Is it time to make a career transition? Understand what makes a guy a king vs a prince plus how to find the next chapter of your career without losing it all. With Marc David of Institute for Psychology of Eating.

Tripp and Ray share embarrassing, disgusting stories from their spiritual retreat disasters. Consider yourself warned. Discussed: Meditation, Goenka, David Deida, Ayahuasca, men’s work, and more.

Make Love Not Porn Founder/CEO Cindy Gallop — Porn vs real world sex, why you’re not satisfied sexually. Plus: making sex socially acceptable, the money to be made by gender equality in adult entertainment.

Mind Your Body author Joel Harper (Dr Oz’s trainer) discusses why some get fit, make more money, and have better relationships — and why most won’t.

How to have difficult conversations. A gay man comes out to his sons. How he navigated addiction, building a family, divorce, plus switching careers.

Are you playing it safe or going for what you really want? On this live group coaching call, Tripp coaches a man to take bold action and overcome limiting beliefs.

Dating and starting over after a long term relationship. Starting conversations with women, sex and exclusive relationships, dealing with rejection.

How to Beat Procrastination Fear and Self Doubt. Recording of coaching client taking action, confronting fear, self-doubt, and beating procrastination. Plus: Finding meaning by helping others.

How to handle negative emotions, fear, anxiety, guilt, shame. Become comfortable with what makes you uncomfortable with Todd Kashdan author of The Upside of Your Dark Side.

The Prosperous Coach author Rich Litvin discusses why some succeed and others won’t, how you may be getting in your own way, and learning how to take a punch.

How to build sexual confidence, how sex relates to success, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, masturbation, and more are discussed.

What can you learn about true power from a former high end escort? In this gripping true story, you’re going to hear how one woman refused to be a victim and found true power in a terrifying situation.

How I nearly made enemies out of people who were trying to help me. This is how I almost got my butt kicked in the process.

How to turn your life around. True story of how Liam Casey got unstuck and learned how to deal with fear and his inner critic. Plus how this impacts his relationships and professional life.

How to get over rejection. Would your life be different if you weren’t afraid of what others might say or think? Jason Comely got sick of rejection — so he made a game out of it.

Not enough money? Relationship in trouble? Life not what you thought it would be? Here's how to tame self criticism.

Feeling confused? Not sure why you're busting butt but going no where? Here's a simple tool to help you learn how to find life direction.

Fear of failure? What this is really about and why you already know how to beat it.

Frank founded a company and found entrepreneur burnout as well. How did he deal with the fear, resistance, and lack of productivity?

Thinking about switching careers? Hungry to do work that matters? Master coach Steve Chandler interviews Tripp Lanier about doing what you love for a living.

Use the player above to listen. In this update... -- Creating a business that's aligned with what matters. -- Building a coaching practice. -- Want more meaning in your life? Become a mentor. Click here to learn more. -- Ask Tripp: More answers to good questions available at The New Man Life. Stay tuned. More to come.

Tripp discusses what's happening with The New Man. Where are the new episodes? What new course is he developing? And what is this new coaching group all about?

What keeps you from making your dreams a reality? Are you scared of being criticized in public? Amelia Rose Earhart discusses her round the world flight and challenges.

Stressed out, grumpy guys says things like: “I have to find my purpose in the world. And I have to pay the bills doing the thing I was put on this earth to do!” This makes it sound like a guy can’t do what he loves unless he can justify it with a handsome, stable paycheck. But is this really true? In the fifth and last lesson of this mini-course, we’re going to explore what it means to live with a sense of purpose or passion and how money fits into all of that.

Most guys are so busy they don’t realize that they’re neglecting the most important things in their lives — relationships. And it makes sense. Relationships are often the stickiest, most challenging areas we know. But what if you could learn a tool that would help you navigate any relationship with more confidence and ease? What if you could learn how to ditch the neediness and drama? In the fourth lesson of this mini-course we dive into relationships and what you can do — today — to improve every single one of them.

Are you in a rut? Have you ever been in a rut? Ruts (or plateaus) can be awful. They eat away at our energy and self-esteem. Days go by and the wheels just spin — no progress was made. Ruts can be professional or ruts can be personal. Regardless, in the third lesson of this mini-course, I’m going to share a simple checklist you can use to get yourself out of a rut.

Part of being a coach means helping guys get out of traps they’ve created for themselves. But wouldn’t be better if you could avoid them altogether? In the second lesson of this mini-course, we’re going to explore: -- The 3 Big Traps that snag even the “smart” guys -- How to claim real power in your life -- How to feel less pressure and more relief

In this series of short podcast episodes I’m going to share some of the big ideas I teach as part of The New Man 360 audio course. That said, let’s dive in and discuss why so many guys hit the wall even if it appears — from the outside — that their personal lives, their relationships, and their career all seem to be doing just fine. Playing a Role As men we often define our lives by our job or what we do — I’m a coach, a lawyer, an entrepreneur, a cafeteria worker. We may have trained ourselves from an early age to be a “good boy” or a “good student”. The problem is that this mindset is simply focused on playing a role. It’s about performance. It’s about meeting some imagined external expectation about who we should be or who we’re supposed to be. In this mindset we’ve allowed ourselves to succumb to an external authority. The theory goes — “If I do what I should do, if I do what a good guy or good student or good husband or good father or successful professional is supposed to do then I will be lit up. I’ll feel peaceful. I’ll be loved. I’ll feel free. If I follow the rules then I’ll be fulfilled.” It sounds good, right? This Idea is Bullshit The heavy cost of this mindset is that most of us end up on autopilot lumbering through our lives playing a role instead of actively creating the experiences we most deeply want. We end up wasting our lives. Many guys drive themselves to exhaustion and depression and dysfunction because they’re ignoring their own inner authority. They’re following the external rules instead of listening to their inner wisdom. They’re ignoring their own unique sense of what will have them feel freedom, love, passion, and peace. To avoid this wall and the sense of a wasted life we need to develop and follow our own inner authority. This means we need to be willing to ditch the roles and orient our lives around what actually strengthens us. And this is about the time the voices of doubt and resistance show up. Here Comes the Doubt and Fear “But if I only do what I want isn’t that selfish? Isn’t that narcissistic? Won’t I be a lousy person or professional or husband or father if I’m taking time away from that stuff to focus on what feeds me?” Good point. The fear is that if we do what truly feeds us then that means we’re going to damage the other things we really care about. But it doesn’t have to be this way. Who Do You Want in Bed with Your Wife? Consider this idea — What if it’s not a choice between either what strengthens you or protecting what you love? What if taking the time and energy to do what invigorates you has you be a better husband and father? What if doing the things that have you feel more peaceful and free also have you be more creative and productive at work? The bullshit belief is that we have to deprive ourselves in order to do or be our best. We’ve bought into this weak idea that caring for ourselves is selfish or bad or wrong. But let me ask you this… Which version of yourself would you prefer to be in your office or in bed with your wife or playing with your kids? The one who is drained, checked out, resentful, or toxic? Or the one who is invigorated, present, open-hearted, and playful? The Bottom Line? Don’t use your job or your family to justify self-deprivation. Don’t blame them. Challenge the idea that says you’ll be fulfilled if you simply do what you imagine others expect of you. Instead, begin experimenting with action. Start small. Very small. You don’t need a plan. You simply need to start experimenting and gathering data around what actually has you feel more alive or more free or more loving or more peaceful. This is how you develop your sense of inner authority. This is how you slowly let go of role playing and step fully into a life that you truly love. This is Just the Tip Now there are many, many more big ideas and practical lessons in The New Man 360 audio course. The New Man 360 covers what really matters and what rea...

Ted Ryce fitness expert, martial artist, and podcast host has experienced great loss including the murder of his younger brother. How does he maintain a positive outlook on life? How did he overcome these tragedies? WARNING: This episode features graphic descriptions of a horrific crime committed against a child.

Do you think flow is only for pro athletes, daredevils, or musicians? The Rise of Superman author Steven Kotler discusses flow and how it can help even if you’re trapped in a dead end job.

Brian Johnson (en*theos, Philosophers Notes) describes his darkest days, the danger of comparing yourself to others, and the mindset that kills fulfillment.

Mastery and 48 Laws of Power author Robert Greene is here to discuss how he wandered through dozens of jobs and being seen as a loser at the age of 37 to reading his name on the New York Times Bestseller list.

Ryan Holiday discusses The Obstacle is the Way. Can anyone learn how to turn adversity into advantage? Find out how to be a badass.

Prog rock badass John Wesley discusses how he redefined his career, claimed his power and stopped playing small. Also: Alex Lifeson, Porcupine Tree, new album Disconnect.

Afraid to take risks? Afraid to admit you’re afraid? Greg Long nearly drowned surfing Cortes Bank and went Christmas shopping the next day. Recovering mentally and emotionally was a much more challenging ordeal.

Marc Quinn, a listener stuck in a dead end job now doing the unimaginable. How did he create a business focused on women’s orgasms and orgasmic meditation?

Struggling to find direction? Stuck in a negative mindset? Way of the SEAL author Mark Divine discusses how to stop holding yourself back.

Bulletproof Exec Dave Asprey spent years and $300,000 to go from being fat, pissed, and weak to having a bulletproof body, mind, and life. How can you do this faster and cheaper?

Buying a shotgun to protect himself, surviving deadly big wave wipeouts, facing imminent financial failure, and moving forward after the loss of his teenage son - Surf legend and author Shaun Tomson discusses practical life lessons.

Marcus Ambrester delivers tips for how to stop fighting with with your wife or girlfriend. Are you in a draining relationship because you love her or just because you don’t want to go through a break up and deal with the uncertainty?

Do you avoid the truth to keep the peace? Learn to understand women’s emotions and keep a discussion from turning into attacks, name calling and blaming.

The Energy Project's Tony Schwartz on why work is killing your life and how to be excellent at anything. Can the best thing for your productivity can be done in your sleep?

Steve Chandler’s battle with drugs, alcohol, and failure. Controversial advice for how to be a wealth warrior.

Author and Silicon Valley renaissance man Kamal Ravikant discusses the dangers of being driven by fear. Plus a simple practice to build confidence and keep you in the zone.

Former Navy SEAL and SEALFit founder, Mark Divine shares how to reach your full potential with an unbeatable mind and why you're capable of 20 times more than you think.

Why do most efforts to start a new habit fail? Learn what really works when it comes to building healthy, long lasting habits.

Are you afraid she'll see you checking her out? How does it feel from her perspective? Find out where admiring beauty ends and creepy begins.

How to appreciate a woman's beauty without repressing yourself. Are you perpetuating harmful expectations on women or is repressing attraction worse?

Is there such a thing as too much porn? Could it be altering your brain chemistry and screwing up your life? And if you're addicted to porn, what's the solution?

Do you ever find yourself battling or giving-in to negative thought patterns? Learn practical tools to stop negative thoughts and beat procrastination.

Tired of the puffy face and belly fat? What's killing your mojo and has you feeling older than you are? It could be the effects of low testosterone. Here's why every man -- young and old -- needs to care about Low T.

Are you just not that into her? Do you ever nitpick how she looks? And does her physical appearance keep you from taking the relationship deeper? Cynthia Stadd shares practical insights about how to address the most dangerous discussion -- a woman, her body, and your attraction.

John "Roman" Romaniello discusses Man 2.0 Engineering the Alpha, dangers of comparing yourself to others, hormone optimization, sex drive, and a path to confidence.

Gabrielle "Gabby" Reece author of My Foot is Too Big for the Glass Slipper discusses what men can learn from her marriage to Laird Hamilton, how they almost got divorced, sex, intimacy, why the fairytale ideal of success is BS, dealing with resentment, and how they make their relationship work.

Dating coach Shana James discusses approaching women in our daily lives: 3 ways to start conversations without playing pickup artist games, what kills attraction, dealing with fear, revealing turn on, what she wants, what she's thinking, and why you need to get a life.

Sarah Ingier Entrup discusses the Soulprint of Creation, why we feel stuck, the Hero's Journey, Joseph Campbell, creating, healing, destroying old patterns, recognizing the cycles of life, meditation, Steven Pressfield, and resistance.

Nick O'Kelly author of Live on the Margin discusses market trading, living on a sailboat, giving up the standard American dream, the 4 Hour Workweek, being a slacker, freedom from lowering lifestyle costs, learning how to take risks, finding true power, confronting fear, and the dangers of playing it safe.

Male sex coach Jim Benson discusses the most common issues guys have with sex, neediness, clingy-ness, ejaculation control, premature ejaculation, the friend zone, tantra, orgasm without ejaculation, Margot Anand, shame, pleasure, the Multi-Orgasmic Lover Online Training, and how religion impacts our sex lives.

Laird Hamilton interview on The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier. Big wave surfing legend discusses fear, failure, motivation, inspiration, family, fatherhood, finding meaning, stand up paddle surfing, injury, recovery, and what's more important than nutrition and exercise.

Sara Avant Stover author of Way of the Happy Woman and creator of Reversing Our Curse gives guys tips for all things PMS related: helping her cope, preparing for the storm, being supportive vs dismissive, and how PMS can even help her be happier.

Jaimal Yogis author of The Fear Project discusses how to train your brain to overcome fear. Including: from anxiety to passion, building courage, neuroscience, meditation, PTSD, pickup artists, ultra swimmers, big wave surfing, MMA fighting.

The Power of TED author David Emerald discusses The Drama Triangle, Victimization vs Victimhood, Viktor Frankl, anxiety, creating passion, being a creator, dealing with tension, and the choices you have in any given moment.

Tim Ferriss author of 4 Hour Chef discusses how to learn anything quickly, dealing with fear and failure, how to gain confidence, and the mindset for success.

Patricia Ryan Madson author of Improv Wisdom: Don't Prepare, Just Show Up discusses improv for your life, Saturday Night Live, Stephen Colbert, Will Ferrell, trusting yourself, accessing your true power, letting go of victim mentality, gratitude, zen mindfulness, and practical tools for dating or finding a job.

Kahuna Harry Uhane Jim from Hawaii discusses men's issues regarding exhaustion, self esteem, overworking, giving up power, playing the victim, taking responsibility, gratitude and basic body practices to recover quickly.

Keith Martin Smith author of A Heart Blown Open the Junpo Denis Kelly biography shares process of writing the book including: risking it all, selling his home, 300 rejection letters, multiple sclerosis, more rejection, the darkest days, giving it his all, and receiving the support of others.

Anthony Meindl author of At Left Brain Turn Right: An Uncommon Path to Shutting Up Your Inner Critic, Giving Fear the Finger and Having an Amazing Life. Interview discusses: fear, failure, success, creativity, feeling stuck, expectations of others, comparing yourself to others, uncertainty, getting out of a rut and Steven Pressfield.

Brian Johnson (Philosophers Notes, en*theos Academy) discusses meditation, why it matters, how to meditate, how meditation affects the brain, how to stop doing stupid things, commitment, neuroplasticity, binaural beats, holosync, hemisync, building willpower, brain states, brain waves, affirmations, meditation retreats, and sitting without pain.

Leo Babauta of Zen Habits discusses living an effortless life, how to confront fear, letting go of goals, when goals and productivity work against you, how to embrace chaos, fear of success, fear of failure, fear of missing out, and living with purpose.

Mark Michael Lewis share practical relationship advice for men, why saying "yes dear" kills sexual attraction, feeling trapped, feeling stuck, why trying to win a fight is a waste of time, selling yourself out, speaking up for what you want, avoiding conflict, creating connection, depth, intimacy and attraction.

Marc David (Psychology of Eating) discusses women's bodies, emotional eating and how they are at odds with sex, dating and relationships. Also discussed: Dieting, marriage issues, relationship issues, sexual attraction, attraction loss, what is sexy, and practical advice.

58 year old stand up paddle SUP racer Bill Whiddon paddled 60+ miles across the Gulf Stream from the Bahamas to Miami in 17+ hours. How to do something crazy, being bold, vision, planning, training, fear, doubt, hitting the wall and resistance are discussed.

Jun Po Denis Kelly Interview A Heart Blown Open. Jun Po discusses his life, sex, LSD, running from the law, meditation, mondo zen, reincarnation, Ken Wilber, spirituality, waking up, koans, anger and fear.

Chip Conley author of Emotional Equations and Peak and CEO of Joie de Vivre Hotels discusses anxiety, workaholism, finding a calling, success and making sense of your emotions.

Peter Bregman discusses dangers of productivity and your comfort zone. Unconventional tips for success and living your passion. Author of 18 Minutes: Find Your Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done

AJ Jacobs author of Drop Dead Healthy: One Man's Humble Quest for Bodily Perfection discusses six pack abs, diets, pole dancing, colonics, juice cleanses, paleo, HIIT, chewdaism, and what you really need to be healthy.

Foundation Training creator Eric Goodman discusses the body, healing and how you're stopping yourself from living a passionate life.

Jon Rose, founder of Waves for Water and former professional surfer, interviewed about career transitions, uncertainty, finding your calling, following your fun and success. Also: the Padang, Sumatra earthquake experience that changed his life.

Jeremy Staat went from the NFL to joining the Marines in Iraq. We discuss the NFL, the Marines, Iraq, job dissatisfaction, career transitions, Pat Tillman, resistance, fulfillment plus veterans suicide and awareness.

In this episode we’re talking with aviatrix and TV news reporter Amelia Earhart about cutting the BS, doing what you love and of course, flying.

Brian Johnson (Philosphers Notes) and New Man Podcast host Tripp Lanier discuss ways to stay focused and follow through.

Slow Sex author and One Taste founder Nicole Daedone discusses Orgasmic Meditation and what men need to know about helping women experience real orgasms and greater pleasure.

Elise Ballard author of Epiphany is interviewed about epiphanies, life changing stories and ways to transform your life.

The Dan Plan is Dan McLaughlin's plan to spend 10,000 hours to become a PGA Golf Pro. In the interview, Dan shares many practical insights for golf and life.

Steven Pressfield (War of Art author) is interviewed in this podcast where resistance, self sabotage and our life's true calling are discussed. Also, tips for beating resistance.

How one man reinvented his life after genital herpes held him hostage for years. Brene Brown, Authentic Man Program and Life Coaching are discussed.

Michael Kass discusses mistakes that landed him in prison and how he endures the dark night of the soul. Practical advice for battling anxiety, terror and shame.

Spankneesh Ji, controversial spiritual guru, discusses his radical path to enlightenment, the meaning of life and true happiness beyond money, sex and achievement.

John Wesley of Porcupine Tree: What it's really like to be a rockstar, hanging with Rush's Neil Peart and Alex Lifeson and raising a daughter on the road.

Interactive Offer creator Clay Collins interviewed on The New Man. How to Quit Your Day Job without Losing Everything and other tips for starting an online business.

Robert Glover (No More Mr Nice Guy). Nice Guys finish last and Dr Robert Glover is on The New Man to talk about why Nice Guys do what they do and how YOU can avoid becoming one.

Sarah Ingier presents counter-intuitive tips and advice for men on how to make more money and live a great life when life is kicking your butt.

Wife of Dr. Mehmet Oz, Lisa Oz lays out some big tips for helping your relationships be the best they can be.

Jordan Harbinger of The Pickup Podcast and Art of Charm is interviewed on how you can bust out of a rut and be more charismatic.

Are you tolerating some soul-sucking job because you don’t think you could survive any other way? Do you believe that if you “follow your passion” everything will just fall into place financially? Johnny B Truant shares his story.

Can you really become a Jedi? David Morelli, co-host of "Everything is Energy" shares advice for men on how to clear blocked energy and tap into power for better sex, fitness and finances.

Man Collective founder Alex Linsley talks about gaining confidence and dealing with criticism after being thrust into the media limelight.

Man Collective (Oxford, England) founder Alex Linsley talks about starting a men's group and his experience of being thrust into the national media limelight. Part 1 of 2.

Chris Jones, writer for Esquire and ESPN: The Magazine is interviewed. Listen as he talks about George Clooney, Tiger Woods, John McCain and Rush.

Break Bad Habits: Get off the cycle of bad habits and failed New Year's Resolutions. Check out these scientifically proven ways to get good habits to stick.

How can a clairvoyant energy healer kick your life into shape? What's it like to have "special powers"? Is she full of crap?

Dan Millman (author Way of the Peaceful Warrior). How can you walk the razor’s edge between being a passive wimp and the aggressive tough guy?

How are your unconscious beliefs holding you back? Explore the strange facial tapping of the ‘emotional freedom technique’ EFT with Brad Yates. Is he legit or is this some woo woo BS? Try it and decide for yourself.

What if YOUR life was an experiment? There's much to learn from living life as a human guinea pig. A bunch of fun, amazing stories from the Esquire writer.

Revolutionary Man, Jayson Gaddis and Tripp Lanier discuss men’s groups. Ever felt stuck, isolated and unable to follow through? This one's for you.

Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone? Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website? Don't look like a tool, learn how to use an online dating site here.

Are you one of those guys who seems to get paralyzed in the process of starting something new? Do you think you need a bunch of training or preparation before you can take action? Derek Sivers shows us how to take action and gain momentum.

You're heartbroken. Do you “Man up” and act like nothing’s wrong? Or collapse into a pity party? Stop the fester and infection of your future and learn how to deal with a breakup.

Train your brain for success and positivity. Avoid the quickest ticket to a depressing life and explore positive psychology with Brian Johnson.

Introduce yourself to positive psychology with Brian Johnson. Figure out if you have a job, a career or a calling. Part 1 of 2.

Is “Polyamory” just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship? Learn from a mother of a newborn who stays at home while her husband dates other women. Powerful stories about an open marriage and open relationship.

Joel Harper eliminates your excuses for not working out. Learn from the big time, big city, personal trainer how you can get over the hump and start a fitness program that sticks.

Are you one of those guys who gets all squirmy when the topic of sex comes up? Hang up your sexual hang-ups and reveal your Authentic Sexual Power.

Big lessons around how to deal with a woman’s “emotional storm” and tips on avoiding those big traps. This one may save your marriage.

Discuss sex, money, and taboo touchy subjects with women. Learn why owning your desire -- even for other women -- is critical to a healthy relationship.

Passion ‘OR’ money? Passion ‘AND’ money? How to follow your purpose and pay the bills with Clay Collins.

Are you spending your time trying to GET money, women, or attention? Let's cut thru the crap and define what you're really here to do.

Is your job a place to just make money or is it something you deeply love? Do you ever find yourself at work wondering, What in the hell am I doing? Guy Sengstock returns to The New Man Podcast to talk about how to find your purpose in life.

How are gay men similar to straight men? And what can you learn from a gay man about improving the sex in your monogamous relationship?

Money is not the root of all evil. Brent Kessel joins us to discuss the inner demons and voices we ALL carry with regards to money. Master your inner game of money here.

Sean Stephenson is here to remind us how to lose the excuses and victim-mentality that keep us playing small. The only thing holding you back is yourself.

The dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and how your secrets ultimately own you. Also, the benefits of getting real with your fears and the transformation of sharing them with others.

Explore the dangers of our inner wiring claiming we're ‘not good enough’. Hear Tripp’s experience as the tables are turned and he is the one being interviewed.

Open your mind to what really matters and find the juice in your everyday life with the Grammy-winning guitarist of Living Colour, Vernon Reid.