Positive Blatherings Podcast

Stephanie Harlowe has a very popular True Crime Channel on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClVF8RcTN3UqAognWFGlJcg) and is also the Co-Host of the Crime Weekly Podcast (CrimeWeeklyPodcast.com). Today we chat about how she took her passion for storytelling and her fascination with murder mysteries and created a career. Come blather with us.

Justen Arnold is the owner of Flexx Mobility and Performance (FlexxMP.com) and he is also a nutrition expert and a motivational coach. He really gets complete joy from helping others to achieve their goals. Blather and laugh with us as we talk about 'purpose through pain' and the "Four F's" in life: Faith, Family, Finances and Fitness.

I wanted to know what Divergent thinking was and how it applies to an overall positive outlook. I did a virtual meet with Jona A. Wright, Ed. D. after a year of playing LinkedIn tag. Join us!

I've always been intrigued by those who make a career out of helping others. I first saw Amanda Falzone in a post about her company You're Hired Rochester. She helps people of all backgrounds and professions improve their working lives. In this episode I get schooled on what's the correct way to write a resume and also learn that sometimes you find your calling in life by accident. I learned about comedians I have never heard of. Come blather with us.

Matt Ginella tells stories. You may recognize him from the Golf Channel or perhaps his "Where's MattyG" column in Golf Digest Magazine. Now, he is the Executive Producer of Dawn Patrol Productions and working on some amazing projects. Matty G and I met when I was hired to shoot the video versions of the "Golf Digest Ambush". Matt has an honest and human approach to storytelling and I'm proud to bring his story to the Blathering. you can find Matt's podcast here:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-fire-pit-with-matt-ginella/id1505330814

Lupus is an autoimmune disease that afflicts millions of people worldwide. Today's guest has taken her situation in life and made it work for her. Marisa Zeppieri-Caruana was a sickly girl in South Florida who became the auto-immune warrior of Western New York. Learn about how she started LupusChick.com and took her "little blog" to an inspiring social movement.

I first met Hannah Costello when she was working as a bank teller in my bank. She looked like such an interesting free spirit that I wanted to learn more about her. I was hoping she was an actress because as a filmmaker, I am always on the lookout for interesting new talent. Nothing happened with my first encounter with Hannah, but fate would have us both working for the same clients and so this was my chance to Blather with Hannah. She really has perfected reinvention and I was intrigued by how much she has done that in her young life. Join us!

I always enjoy speaking with authors to get a peak into their process. Jesse Cruz was a self-proclaimed "non-creative" who was transformed by a personal tragedy and now devotes his life to helping others find the bliss in theirs. Join me for a Blather with Jesse Cruz!

Are you terrified of home schooling? It's not as tough as you might think and Deb Ross from KidsOutAndAbout.com has some advice to help make it easy and fun!

I wrote about this on my blog, which you can read, here: http://rocvox.com/positive-blatherings-my-eureka-moment/

But in a nutshell: My life is way better than I realized....but I realized it this morning, hence the EUREKA!

Another episode FROM THE VAULT! (Should have been posted last year) Brianna McInerny is the kind of person who makes lemons into a lemon meringue pie! She is the founder of SLICE inspiration and counseling and her job is to inspire people - but so much more. Let's discuss her journey about Inspiration and Positivity.

(FROM THE VAULT: This episode should have been posted months ago.)Throughout our lives there are people who make a difference in the direction we take. A parent, an aunt or uncle, a coach. Keith Greer reminds me of someone I know but I couldn't quite place who until I realized he's likely the combination of many people who made a difference in my life. I was so honored to sit down and discuss his journey and how he has devoted his life to helping others in many areas. As I approach my first year of sobriety, this discussion is very meaningful. Let's meet Keith!

He's made so much out of nothing - when people said it couldn't be done, he did it. Alex Ferrari, CEO of Indie Film Hustle is out with a new book, 'Rise of the Filmtrepreneur' and it is the filmmaking hack every indie filmmaker should get, ASAP.

Billy Powell went from being a struggling vocalist to owning a successful talent agency in Rochester, NY. Listen to how he got his start, his ability to recognize the trends and evolve, and his advice for talent. We also discuss how there is a ghost in the studio - which might explain why there is a technical difficulty with my microphone that only came out in the recording.

Edward Monahan is the kind of guy you learn nuggets of truth from at every turn. A successful career at Kodak which ended abruptly, lead to a successful consulting business for Ed and he has taken everything in stride. HIs positive outlook and application of those principles are a picture of how to approach the gentle balance of career and family life.

Kelsea Little took a chance on a job with a little startup in San Diego named GoFundMe - next thing she knows she is writing her own job description and traveling the country interviewing people for her podcast, True Stories of Good People. I was fortunate enough to sit and chat with Kelsea about her journey.

She's a PR professional in Rochester...she's a performer...she is the leader of a Merry Band of Millennials. She is Dresden Engle and she joins Fitz to discuss creativity, positivity and life.

January 30, 2019 I quit drinking alcohol and my life has been absolutely amazing since. I didn't think I could do it but in this episode I do a quick reflection - talk about a drinking dream and also tease my 1 year anniversary of the Blathering.

She started her own non profit organization that helps build schools and clinics in Kenya. She is a Phd student studying Immunology and she hasn't even reached the milestone of 30! Have a conversation with Daphne Pariser and discover how she became such a doer and positive force in our world.

Hillary Olson is the new President and CEO of the Rochester Museum and Science Center and she brings with her so much energy and positivity, I just had to share it with as many people as I could. Listen as she talks about her love for all things science and how her passion for learning became a career.

Jose Peo was brought to my attention by a friend of mine who works with Jose. Once I learned Jose's story I wanted to have him on the show. Learn about his name, his history and his future, plus how he can rock a purple suit and look good doing it while running for Rochester City Council.

From Rochester to Nashville - Alyssa is a powerhouse, multitalented and gifted young artist with an old soul. It's always fun to have her in studio and she brought her guitar, playing two new songs!

Todd Youngman is a comedian's comedian. He's also a super nice guy, a family man and he's not dumb. Find out why everyone just absolutely loves Todd Youngman. If you don't love him by the end of this episode, you get a refund.

Author of This Naked Mind: Control Alcohol and The Alcohol Experiment, Annie Grace is a positive force in this world. Annie took her desire to quit drinking and turned it into a movement, one that has helped me personally so I had to Blather with her. Join us in discussion Annie's journey to a life without alcohol and her Moment of Clarity. www.thisnakedmind.com

Connie Lee has taken her pain and made it work for her. If you need inspiration, check her out at ConnieLeeFitness.com - she will make you anew. Listen to how she took adversity and life's curveballs and hit a home run!

Episode 57: Erin Jensen is my first repeat guest! She's back with the very inspiring and interesting story behind her new book, Benevolent.

Alex Ferrari is a filmmaker and founder of Indie Film Hustle, an online resource for indie filmmakers. Actually, it's way more than that. It has expanded to a streaming service available on many platforms. Alex is now releasing his first book! It's about his experiences as a young filmmaker being hired to shoot a movie for people with...let's just say...somewhat shady connections. Buy the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Shooting-Mob-based-Incredible-Story/dp/194808063X

You might have heard him do is own restaurant commercials on the radio or perhaps you're smart enough to have visited Itacate Mexican Bar and Taqueria. I am fortunate to have crossed paths with Jose Abarca through my work in radio. We have opposing political views, but we see eye to eye about family, the importance of faith and treating others with respect.

Hélène Biandudi Hofer has the kind of personality that makes you smile and tell her your life's story. From Ohio, Hélène knew at a very young age that she wanted to tell stories. Now, she tells the stories of people who don't often get a chance to. Join us for this Blathering about gratitude, professionalism and learning to communicate in our complex social environment.

Dawn Kellogg has a stories career in and around the theatre. From Lester, NY to the West End of London, Dawn has worked with some of the finest talents in the business. Rochester, NY is lucky to claim her as the Communications Manager for Geva Theatre Center.

Allison Roberts comes from a family of artists and inspires me with her wit and positive outlook on a daily basis...even if it is mostly on Facebook. She is also the Co-Founder and Director of Impact Interactive. www.impactinteractive.org

Juan Vazquez is one of those guys who can walk in a room and have a conversation with anyone. We talk about how having many different related skills can make you an invaluable asset to your employer.

Ottavia Marlo is one of those friends who you see doing things and you think to yourself, "How did she just DO that?" She's an actress, a vocalist, a fitness model and English teacher (cue the Van Halen Song) and she hung out with me to Blather about reinvention, Italian style!

The story of Carole King comes to life on stage at the Rochester Auditorium Theatre Jan 22-27. Dylan S. Wallach co-stars as Gerry Goffin, husband and songwriting parter of Carole King. We talk about the show, his life as an actor and his positive approach to the craft.

This conversation started out like a typical Blathering - but ended up somewhere way far away from where I thought. The subject of human trafficking and one man's love for a woman - or is it all just a scam?

Mae Fox has dedicated her life to healing. Not just the body, but the soul and the spirit as well. She has recently contributed to a book available online titled "Heart and Soul: Living a Love-Filled, Spirit-Guided, Consciously-Created Life. Mae's chapter is titled 'Removing the Sword'.

Beth Adams is a trusted voice in Rochester Media. Her career has taken many turns but she feels she is exactly where she needs to be. Her talent as a radio host and journalist came through in this interview as she managed to interview me a little bit, which was quite the honor. Beth talks about the balance of life and career and how spirituality and positivity play an important role in her life.

Craig Simmons became known as "Spazman" in the ring. As a pro wrestler, he saw the ins and outs of the business. He learned how to hone his creativity and use it to do good. An auto-immune disease cut his wrestling career short, but he is not short on charm, talent, drive or positivity.

Lori Bajorek goes after what she wants. She's been on top and hit just about rock bottom and through it all she has a laser focus on her end goal. She has produced films and theatre because it's what she wanted to do - and nobody was going to tell her no!

"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." If we've evolved at all as a society, we should have figured out that words absolutely do matter and they matter a great deal. Evan Dawson of WXXI News knows how words can affect the world around us. Listen to this mindful Blathering...

Deanna King might author the Cynical Mother blog, but that doesn't mean she's a cynic. She speaks her mind, sees the world through the broad lens of comedy and also works hard at raising her kids to be good human beings. Both on the mic and off, she is authentic.

Jennie Cancelmi decided she was going to have a TLC show and less than 3 years later she does. Talking about empathy, gratitude and celebrating the small stuff.

There is a soft intensity about William Powell. He describes himself as a 'Change Agent' and he's devoted his life to helping others break out of the mold that was cast for them by society. He gives them the tools to create a new mold and reshape their own destiny. www.willmotivates.com

My favorite part of this podcast is what I learn. In this episode, I learned so much about Josh Pies, a very generous and talented filmmaker, family man and friend. We talk story, networking, perseverance and faith in this extended episode of The Blathering.

Megan Mack does not think of herself as a funny person, yet she teaches improv. She is the producer of one of the smartest radio shows around and is a delight to chat with.... From the Second City to the Flour City!

Mike DiGiorgio is the kind of guy you see others hanging out with and you wish you could too. Why? He's the quintessential music fan, always has a can do attitude and can most likely solve your problems with an appropriate Kiss or Van Halen lyric. Hang with us for a Blathering and learn how this dude abides.

Sky Sands developed his skills at an early age. Listen as he breaks down his career into its many parts all the while making it sound like it was your life he was describing.

Matt Crawford (Craw Mattford) does traffic during my morning radio show. He offered up his pal from Florence, Italy to be on my podcast. I didn't really understand why until I was able to chat with him. Positivity can good intentions can transcend language and culture. We talked about the laid back approach to work and the importance of family and friends with my new Florentine friend. Join us for "pisolino" - or the long lunch.

Normal Holland has been a trusted name and face in Rochester TV News for over 20 years. She has managed to persevere because of her drive, innate sense of humanity and her dedication to the truth - all while being funny and professional. Join me for a funny and sincere blathering with a true Rochester treasure.

A Candid interview with 90's icon Pauly Shore. He's a decent guy, though a little aloof and he shares his thoughts on touring and showbiz at the age of 50. Check out his podcast at www.paulyshore.com

Monette Magrath (Pronounced Magraw) is an actress, mother and a sincere soul. Listen as we blather about her craft, honesty, humanity, parenting and how she manages to make the best out of the mundane. She inspires.

Fitz touches on Karma again....because it is key to a happy life.

Stephanie Armstrong has had her share of challenges and setbacks. Join us to hear about how her journey went from Juvenile Detention to her own business and the spirituality that brought her there.

Justin Dangler loved playing Nerf Battles with his father. One day, his fun pass time became a way to connect with the youth of Rochester and promote healthy active competition and play. Listen as we take aim on achieving goals and realizing dreams.

Andrea Holland is a self-made woman. Not only does she brighten up a room with her wit and wisdom, she is a caring and giving soul who just wants to help people find their better selves. Dive into a conversation with Andrea about how you should become more comfortable with being uncomfortable.

Jonny Greco is the nicest guy you could ever meet. His positive outlook on EVERYTHING is contagious. Listen in as we rap about the road that took him From Oneonta, NY to the Stanley Cup finals with the Vegas Golden Knights.

Dante J. Worth is the kind of person everyone should know. At the age of 26 he's a published author, public speaker, Success Mentor, organizer and Audacious Believer. He shoots for the stars and gets there on a regular basis. Join us in a conversation about humanity, humility and the audacity of Dante J. Worth.

Trading services in business is a great tool and usually mutually beneficial - but make sure you're smart about it. Get a contract so you're sure you get your value from the deal.

Mexican, Algerian, Irish and a "whole bunch of other stuff" mixed together with a healthy helping of empathy, professionalism, ethics and respect. Today I sat down with Samantha Miles of 13 WHAM TV and had a funny and insightful interview that I believe you will really enjoy.

Owning a small creative business means that the line between business and personal can be very blurry - if not invisible...but there is always a line. This is my blathering about my discovery of how to deal with that struggle - in real time.

Being thoughtful – truly thoughtful, is a real artform that so very many people just don’t understand. Being thoughtful isn’t just remembering a birthday or wedding anniversary. Being thoughtful is bringing someone a pink carnation on their birthday because they once told you about how much they love pink carnations. Thoughtfulness, in my opinion, is going that extra step to really get through the N.O.I.S.E.

Dave Spiro was on stage in Syracuse performing in The Laramie Project when he fell ill. It would be a while and another liver before he would act again. Listen to Dave's incredible journey from being a Paramedic in NYC to now needing a kidney transplant. This man will not give up. If you'd like to learn about being a Kidney donor, visit this website: https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/surgery/transplant/procedures/kidney-transplant.aspx

What is Impostor Syndrome and can you use it to be a better person? I blather uncontrollably in this one - bring a compass.

I am taking issue with an article about how a study shows that being pessimistic is better than being positive and optimistic when it comes to stress and dealing with bad news. https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6958515/looking-bright-side-bad-health-stress-cope-better/

It's Tuesday and nothing ever happens on Tuesday except the odd Taco Tuesday - but since I cannot do an episodes about Tacos, I figured I would offer you some real value. Tom Corley is a best selling author whose books include Rich Habits and Rich Kids, How to Raise Our Children to be Happy and Successful in Life. I recorded these interviews a few years ago but they never aired...so I figured I would share them with you. Listen every Tuesday for another Rich Tip from Tom. Find him at RichHabits.net @RichHabits

Annette Ramos is the Executive Director of the Rochester Latino Theatre Company as well as a Community Engagement Consultant for Geva Theatre Center. She is a big deal in a little body with an even bigger heart. Listen about her journey from LA to Rochester, NY - her love of her culture, heritage and her focus on Latinx inclusion in the arts.

I blather about about happy I am not not be getting enough sleep - because I am working hard to build my business for me and my family and not to enrich someone else. Stay motivated and be grateful - you will succeed.

Whether in business or your daily personal life, going the extra mile is a great practice. Have a can-do attitude and make everyone feel like they are number one - and you will be rewarded, guaranteed.

At age 39 Todd Youngman decided to go after his dream of being a comic. Now, he is the Marketing Director for one of the top comedy venues on the East Coast and soon the country, Comedy At The Carlson in Rochester, NY.

You've heard the saying "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff" - yeah, it's totally true and I learned how adopting that philosophy and doing a little quick meditation saved my day and stopped me from spiraling down into the darkness once again.

Chuck Ingersoll does great voice! I've considered him an adjunct mentor (even if he didn't know he was). From radio to advertising and marketing and providing his dulcet pipes to scores of projects, Chuck knows success. Now semi-retired, Chuck blathers with me about his 10.5 Tenets for Being Successful Through Peace. It's a good listen.

Jessie Keating is a fundraiser for the Mozilla Corporation, which you may recognize as the company that brought us the Firefox web browser. Jessie is a writer at heart and a compassionate soul who believes that we all have the wisdom of the Universe within us - and it is just waiting to be unlocked. Jessie and I have a fun time blathering about Karma, The Law of Attraction and our mutual quest to be good humans...come hang out with us.

Erin A. Jensen has a scientific background and a creative soul. She works part-time as a Pharmacist and one day had the crazy idea to write a novel. It wasn't such a crazy idea after all. Join me as I chat with Erin about her journey in writing the Dream Waters series of novels. http://www.erinajensen.com

I've come to realize that there are some people who are in your life for a reason and you are a better person because of that gift. I met Rick Staropoli 10 years ago when he started dating my colleague Tiffany, who is now his wife. We've been working closely together on a project and there have been times where I was really down in the dumps. I have been amazed by his consistent can-do "there's nothing wrong" attitude over the years and always wanted to chat with him about his many talents and his uncanny ability to make it all seem like 'No Big Deal'.

Doug Emblidge is a household name in Rochester. He's been "working the split", anchoring the morning and afternoon newscasts at 13 WHAM TV for 18 years, though his career goes back to the early 1980's. Doug has a way of making you feel at ease - whether he is reporting the news or telling you a joke you cannot repeat over the airwaves. Listen as Doug talks about the power of perspective and of serving his community.

Fitz chats with Alyssa Trahan, East Rochester native and current resident of Nashville. Alyssa talks about focusing on her dreams and staying positive while living in the sometimes negative world of the music business. Alyssa performs her new singe, 'Leading the Pack'. Find her at alyssatrahan.com

Fitz sits down with Rebecca Leclair to discuss her 30 years as a journalist, the power of Karma and spirituality and how to remain positive while covering negative news stories.

Make sure your clients are happy - even if you could not serve them. Send them to the competition if you cannot help! They will appreciate it in the long run and will definitely generate good will and Karma that will come back to you tenfold.

It is kind of a no-brainer! The positive person always does better than the complainer or the smack-talker.

Fitz connects with Jim Sidoti of jsvoiceovers.com and discusses how Jim left his job in radio to pursue his dream of being a voice over artist. The idea of a "no retreat" approach to your goals is one of the keys to success.

What is an Accountability Coach? A nagging spouse or something better? It's a valid question!

Today was created just for you - for you to get one step closer to achieving your goals and becoming a better person.

Fitz chats with Debra Ross, publisher of KidsOutAndAbout.com and BeyondTheNest.com. - about her journey as an entrepreneur and how persistence, positivity and the power of giving leads to success.

Fitz blathers about Vision boards and his experience with them. Also - YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!

Fitz blathers about why it can be so hard to maintain positivity - the factors that could be in your way and how to get past them.