By the Way

As we watch the mayhem of the election process unfold, and, in many ways,  get more tangled as we go, we’re all wondering what’s going to happen and, more importantly, how we are to respond. What are we to do?

Toph offers some practical suggestions in today's episode.

That cool song, "Trouble" (used with permission), is from "The Chosen"—which you really should watch!

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Does the church stop being the church if it's not gathered? We tackle that question in today's episode.

Here are some important resources for you to learn more:
https://www.deliveredbygrace.com/why-we-are-not-calling-our-livestream-virtual-church/
https://religiousaffections.org/articles/articles-on-church/why-we-wont-livestream-during-lockdown-though-we-could/
https://religiousaffections.org/articles/articles-on-church/wrong-responses-to-a-loss-of-corporate-worship/
https://religiousaffections.org/articles/in-the-nick-of-time/digital-church-drive-in-church-what-should-we-think/
https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2020/04/01/what-about-these-communion-alternatives/
https://www.gty.org/library/blog/B200723

That cool song, "Trouble" (used with permission), is from "The Chosen"—which you really should watch!

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We cut this piece out of our last episode, on the 2020 Election (which you really should listen to), but thought it was worth making into its own bonus episode—enjoy! That cool song, "Trouble" (used with permission), is from "The Chosen"—which you really should watch! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share the podcast! Our aim is to encourage, exhort, and equip busy believers to become committed and competent disciples of Christ in every area of life. Support us at patreon.com/termonmedia Thanks for listening, and Godspeed!

In this episode, we share some thoughts about the 2020 election, Piper's infamous article, the role of the conscience in voting, the responsibility of the Christian in voting, and a common fallacy when it comes to the nature of the gospel and discipleship.

Here is Piper's article — https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/policies-persons-and-paths-to-ruin

Here are some excellent responses to Piper:
https://dougwils.com/books-and-culture/s7-engaging-the-culture/john-piper-me-and-the-cool-shame-election.html
https://dougwils.com/books-and-culture/s7-engaging-the-culture/a-second-round-on-john-piper-me-and-the-cool-shame-election.html
https://www.christianpost.com/voice/a-response-to-my-friend-john-piper-about-voting-for-trump.html
https://americanvision.org/24777/my-response-to-john-pipers-paths-to-ruin-article/
https://albertmohler.com/2020/10/26/christians-conscience-and-the-looming-2020-election

Here's an excellent article from Grudem on voting for Trump's policies — https://townhall.com/columnists/waynegrudem/2016/10/19/if-you-dont-like-either-candidate-then-vote-for-trumps-policies-n2234187

This article talks more about voting as a way of loving our neighbor — https://religiousaffections.org/articles/articles-on-culture/vote-so-as-to-obey-the-second-greatest-commandment/

To understand the importance of the electoral college:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V6s7jB6-GoU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXnjGD7j2B0
https://thefederalist.com/2016/09/16/the-electoral-college-still-makes-sense-because-were-not-a-democracy/

Here are some good resources you should know about to help you stay up to date on what's going on in the church and world, and to view it through a biblical lens:
https://crosspolitic.com/
https://dougwils.com/
https://founders.org/
https://ezrapress.ca/collections/all

That cool song, "Trouble" (used with permission), is from "The Chosen"—which you really should watch!

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We recently had the honor and delight of sitting down with Pastor C.R. Wiley and having a casual conversation around an iPad (hence all the background, and sometimes foreground, noise). 

Wiley's books on the productive household are top of the bag, and really should be required reading for every Christian man:

Man of the House: How to Build a Shelter That Lasts in a World That is Falling Apart — .

The Household and the War for the Cosmos — https://amzn.to/2QotIPN.

Here's the podcast episode we mentioned wherein we discuss the benefits of technology (that Aristotle anticipated), and how Christians should view their smart devices — https://anchor.fm/termon/episodes/How-Should-Christians-Think-About-Smart-Devices--parts-1-and-2-e8oosr.

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Is retirement biblical? It's often assumed that retirement is not an option for Christians. But that depends a lot on how you define retirement, and what you plan to do in retirement.

This article talks about the problems with traditional retirement planning — https://www.richdad.com/prepare-for-retirement.

Here's a pretty good article on retirement from Crown Financial Ministries — https://www.crown.org/blog/what-does-the-bible-say-about-retirement-2/.

Here are a couple of helpful articles on the biblical idea of leaving an inheritance to your children — https://resourcesfordeacons.com/departments/inheritance/.

For overall financial philosophy, we recommend a mixture of (in this order): Gary North, Robert Kiyosaki, and Dave Ramsey. 

And we must again recommend C.R. Wiley's book, Man of the House: A Handbook for Building a Shelter That Will Last in a World That is Falling Apart — https://amzn.to/3aFruVz.

Here is the Rachel Jankovic book we mentioned—a must-read for ladies—https://amzn.to/2Q9XnvZ. Her Facebook page is really worth following as well—https://www.facebook.com/racheljankovic.

That cool song, Trouble (used with permission), is from "The Chosen," on VidAngel, which you really should watch!

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1 John is a challenging book. Toph and Jed tackle a couple of interesting interpretive issues in today's episode.

Here's a helpful commentary on the book of 1st John taking the view Toph and Jed espoused — https://amzn.to/318FzYp.

Here's Fairview Bible Church's site [fairviewbiblechurch.org] and podcast [https://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewPodcast?id=1479708165].

The closing song (used with permission) is from "The Chosen," on VidAngel, which you really should watch!

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In 1 Thessalonians 5:17, the apostle Paul instructs Christians to "pray without ceasing."  But what does that mean? Toph and Jed tackle the question of how to follow that instruction in today's episode.

Prayer is simply the word we use for talking to God. God speaks to us through His written Word; and when we speak to Him, we call it prayer. But many Christians struggle to understand the power and simplicity of prayer. Below are some helpful resources to learn more about prayer in the life of the Christian.

In this blog post, Toph explains a simple method to help your prayer life when you struggle to find the words to say [https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2018/08/16/praying-the-psalms/].

The great reformer, Martin Luther, once explained to his barder how to pray using the Lord's Prayer as a guide in this fascinating letter [https://static1.squarespace.com/static/58a73709414fb5ac487511d0/t/599e66ece3df2831f0e97eb3/1503553260932/Luther%2C+Martin.+A+Simple+Way+to+Pray.+Plain.pdf]

The Cripplegate blog has a helpful article on the "Right and Wrong Ways to Pray" [http://thecripplegate.com/right-wrong-ways-to-pray/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+TheCripplegate+%28The+Cripplegate%29].

Dr. Paul Henebury has a good introduction to prayer in this series [https://drreluctant.wordpress.com/2012/12/12/the-struggle-of-prayer-1/].

Two fascinating books that can serve as helpful aids to your prayer life are Piercing Heaven [https://amzn.to/2YU1G3U] and The Valley of Vision [https://amzn.to/2yVjqyw].

The closing song (used with permission) is from "The Chosen," on VidAngel, which you really should watch!

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In today's episode, Toph tackles the doctrine of conditional immortality—the view that the souls of unbelievers will not remain in conscious torment in hell, but will be annihilated along with their bodies—as propounded by the folks at Rethinking Hell (http://rethinkinghell.com/).

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Full Episode: We recently sat down with missionary and Bible teacher, Gene Cunningham,  and asked him about the pandemic panic (and a few other things).

To hear more of Gene's teaching, find his books, and learn more about and support his ministry, go to basictraining.org.

If you're interested in learning more about the doctrine of eternal rewards, we would recommend starting with this series from Cripplegate: https://thecripplegate.com/degrees-of-reward-pt-1/.

Three books that may be helpful to learn more would be Grace, Salvation, and Discipleship (https://amzn.to/3c5b1cZ), The Preacher's Payday (https://amzn.to/2UNzKfQ), and Going for the Gold (https://amzn.to/3a5y45V). Gene also discussed the doctrine of rewards in more detail at his 2019 Uniontown conference (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/basic-training-bible-ministries/id1457836388?i=1000455954354), and will be dealing specifically with this doctrine at his upcoming Virginia conference, so be watching for that as well.

A good place to get started on some of the ideas that we discussed in the second part of the episode about community, self-reliance, and sustainable households would be C.R. Wiley's book, Man of the House (https://amzn.to/34p8Luj).

And, to keep up with the coronavirus happenings, you really ought to be following CrossPolitic—especially their Daily News Briefs (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fight-laugh-feast-network/id1158923632?fbclid=IwAR1Yhy95HTtzgmrvHimZe2fkKCWix0ixZKKfWukfjaDVquVrhb8tROsVs6k#episodeGuid=https%3A%2F%2Fcrosspolitic.com%2F%3Fpost_type%3Dpodcast%26p%3D9155).

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Matthew 12:40 says that Christ would be in the belly of the earth for three days and three nights; but that doesn't work with a Friday crucifixion. So, was Jesus actually crucified on Thursday—or even Wednesday?

This week being Passion Week, Pastor Toph is taking a few episodes to explain some interpretive difficulties that come up with regard to the chronology of the final days leading up to our Lord's death and resurrection, in order to show that when the Scripture is allowed to speak, it is always shown to be absolutely truthful and trustworthy.

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The Gospel of John clearly explains that Jesus arrived in Bethany on the Friday before Passion Week, and there was held a meal in Christ's honor in Bethany on Saturday. And the Triumphal Entry then was on the next day—Sunday. However, Matthew and Mark both place the account of the meal in Bethany in the middle of their Tuesday narrative. So when did the meal take place? Saturday or Tuesday?

This week being Passion Week, Pastor Toph is taking a few episodes to explain some interpretive difficulties that come up with regard to the chronology of the final days leading up to our Lord's death and resurrection, in order to show that when the Scripture is allowed to speak, it is always shown to be absolutely truthful and trustworthy.

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This week being Pasion Week, let's take some time to think through a couple of interpretive difficulties that come up with regard to the chronology of the final days leading up to our Lord's death and resurrection.

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We sat down with missionary and Bible teacher, Gene Cunningham, and asked him about the pandemic and panic, and how we, as Christians, should respond in a way that's different than the world. Here's a short preview. Watch for the full episode coming soon!

Jonathan is said to have loved David "as his own soul." This more than mere affection, or companionship; it certainly has nothing to do with any kind of romantic relationship. So what exactly is going on with this covenant between Jonathan and David in 1 Samuel 18?

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What good could possibly come from the pandemic and the panic? We sat down with missionary and Bible teacher, Gene Cunningham, and asked him about that (and a few other things). Here's a short preview. Watch for the full episode coming soon!

We recently sat down with missionary and Bible teacher, Gene Cunningham, and asked him about the pandemic panic (and a few other things). Here's a short preview. Be watching for the full episode coming soon!

Be nice! Why can't we all just get along?

When people say nice, they usually mean “agreeable," or "not harsh." Is niceness really a biblical category? Is it even a virtue? That's what we discuss in today's episode of By the Way.

You can listen to the Voddie Baucham sermon Jed mentioned here: https://www.sermonaudio.com/sermoninfo.asp?SID=92616421148

A helpful article on the relationship between niceness, masculinity, and reformed theology can be found here: https://bnonn.com/calvinism-masculinity-niceness/

The men at the Theology Pugcast had an episode on niceness as well; listen to it here—https://crosspolitic.com/podcast/the-theology-pugcast-niceness-stupid-as-it-ever-was/ 

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If I read my Bible and pray every day, will I grow, grow, grow? Is it really that simple? If I read and pray, is spiritual growth automatic? Or is there more to it? Listen to today's episode of By the Way to find out.

Here, Paul Tripp and Tim Lane succinctly lay out a biblical theology of change — https://tavernhall.files.wordpress.com/2019/06/how_christ_changes_us_by_his_grace.pdf.

Here are a few helpful books on the subject of how Christians grow in Christlikeness:

"How Does Sanctification Work?," by David Powlison — https://amzn.to/2Sj1OGK

"Ordinary: Sustainable Faith in a Radical, Reckless World," by Michael Horton — https://amzn.to/2D9V6Mf

"Valley of Vision," — https://amzn.to/2yVjqyw

"The Loveliness of Christ: Selections from the Letters of Samuel Rutherford" — https://amzn.to/2NeDC5I

Also, check out Toph's helpful lists here (https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/biblical-counseling-resources/) and here (https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2018/11/12/how-to-start-building-your-book-collection/).

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Is it wrong for a married couple to choose childlessness? We would say, ordinarily, yes, but tell us more. This is a touchy and controversial subject, and we wade into it in today's episode.

We strongly encourage you to read these two articles from Michael Foster and Bnonn Tennant: "Fruitfulness is Normal" (https://itsgoodtobeaman.com/fruitfulness-is-normal/) and "If Marriages Should Be Fruitful, Can We Use Contraceptives" (https://itsgoodtobeaman.com/if-marriages-should-be-fruitful-can-we-use-contraceptives/).

This article containing the "press-for-puppy" illustration we mentioned is worth reading in its entirety — https://www.patheos.com/blogs/troublerofisrael/2018/09/if-you-dont-want-kids-dont-have-sex-or-get-married/.

Here is Doug Wilson's (much more succinct) answer to the question of married couples choosing childlessness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmbaXdbP_CI.

For further (and more academic) reading, here are two helpful articles from Alistair Roberts — https://theopolisinstitute.com/before-obergefell-some-thoughts-on-how-we-got-here/ and https://alastairadversaria.com/2012/05/19/marriage-and-procreation/.

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Yes, we know this is old news now (we recorded it right when it happened though), but this discussion was still worth sharing—at least we think it was.

So, John MacArthur told Beth Moore to "go home," and the immediate evangelical uproar basically crashed the internet. In this impromptu episode, Jed asks pastor Toph a few clarifying questions about the whole thing.

Here's a link to the pertinent audio clip — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NeNKHqpBcgc.

You can read Toph's blog post here, and we definitely recommend clicking on the videos and articles he links to at the end — https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2019/10/27/moore-about-that-invitation-to-go-home/.

To study this topic further, we'd recommend starting with a few books such as:

Women in the Church: An Interpretation and Application of 1 Timothy 2:9-15 — https://amzn.to/2GMQyfc

God's Design for Man and Woman — https://amzn.to/2v1OltA

Building a Godly Home — https://amzn.to/37XJGb0

And we always recommend the work of It's Good to Be a Man — https://itsgoodtobeaman.com/

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What is honor? And in what way does God honor us? Honor plays a prominent role in Scripture, yet we frequently misunderstand it's definition, role, and import. In today's episode, Toph explains what honor is, horizontal honor and vertical honor, the difference between honoring God and being honored by God, and more.

To explore the topic further, we would recommend Honor, Patronage, Kinship & Purity, by David deSilva — https://amzn.to/2EG9woU.

You may also be interested in the talk Lee Podles gave at the 2018 Touchstone conference. You have to be a subscriber to  Touchstone to access the session right now. But that’s also well worth your while. Here it is: “Honorable Men & the Honor of God: The Centrality of Honor in Masculinity & Christianity” (https://www.touchstonemag.com/touchstone-conference/2018/honorable-men-and-the-honor-of-god-podles.php).

We’d also commend to you C.R. Wiley’s session on piety from the same conference (https://www.touchstonemag.com/touchstone-conference/2018/making-men-pious-again-wiley.php).

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A brief followup to our episode on patriotism.

There are two groups of people who truly understand the threat of Christianity: those who are persecuted because of their Christian convictions, and those who do the persecuting.

As our allegiance to Christ increasingly comes into conflict with our ability to obey our earthly rulers, we need to be prepared to say with the apostles, “We must obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:29).

To read more about the prophetic and political function of the church, we would recommend the book that shaped much of our thinking in this area: Political Church: The Local Assembly as Embassy of Christ’s Rule, by Jonathan Leeman — https://amzn.to/3954mOh.

And, while the Nashville Statement is commendable, we would rather recommend the Fortified Nashville Statement as an even more faithful and sound articulation of the biblical teaching on marriage and sexuality — https://warhornmedia.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/The-Nashville-Statement-Fortified.pdf.

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How should Christians think about patriotism and love for one's country in balance with love for Christ and His kingdom? Toph and Jed discuss this huge topic in today's episode, arguing for some practical applications as well.

This was an early attempt at recording. It's actually the very first episode we ever recorded. Hopefully, the sound quality, and content quality, has improved since then and will continue to improve; but we wanted to share this discussion with you.

If you're interested in learning more about these issues, or perhaps are discouraged at the foreignness of some of these topics, we recommend the following resources.

Political Church, by Jonathan Leeman, has significantly shaped our understanding of these issues — https://amzn.to/31lTj0x.

Politics According to the Bible, by Wayne Grudem, is a helpful reference for Christians just wading into the topic — https://amzn.to/31ntygv.

Bastion Magazine (https://www.bastionmagazine.com/magazine?utm_source=termon) is a phenomenal journal on politics, culture, history, philosophy, economics, and literary and social criticism from a standpoint of traditional conservatism and Austrian economics. This is one of the most important resources you can get your hands on. The blog is worth following as well (https://www.bastionmagazine.com/blog).

Brion McClanahan has some excellent history lectures at McClanahan Academy — https://mcclanahanacademy.com/?affcode=167843_wdpv0cem.

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Why are our kids leaving the church as soon as they're out of high school? That's what we discuss on today's episode of By the Way.

The book we mentioned, "Already Gone," can be found here: https://amzn.to/3bac4IE.

You can find the other links we mentioned here in Toph's article (and the whole article is worth reading while you're there) — https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2018/05/14/raisingchildren-regardingchurch/.

This piece reveals the significance specifically of the father's presence and commitment to the church — https://www.touchstonemag.com/archives/article.php?id=16-05-024-v.

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Like we said in the pilot episode, we know that you don't care who we are unless we have a podcast worth listening to. So we thought that we'd now take this second episode to introduce ourselves and the podcast.

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How should Christians think about their smart devices? Should we fear them? Use them cautiously? Use them freely with no concern at all?

Hi! Our names are Toph and Jed. In this, the pilot episode of By the Way, we discuss one comprehensive metaphor that we think helpfully answers all of our concerns and questions about smart devices and life in the digital age.

This was an early recording, and the sound quality will get better on future episodes. Also, Toph has a cold.

If you're interested in any of the books we mentioned in today's episode, follow the links below to get those resources and learn more!

Man of the House, by C.R. Wiley — https://amzn.to/36L3gqL (This is a must-read; you don't want to be without this book)

Politics, by Aristotle — https://amzn.to/2PWRMdJ (This is an excellent and important work, but it does take some time to work through; this is the best edition we've found)

These last two we haven't read ourselves, but wanted to link to them in case you are interested since we mentioned them.

12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You, by Tony Reinke — https://amzn.to/2NPZGTt

Life After Google, by George Gilder — https://amzn.to/2WUHa0d

A new book by Doug Wilson just came out—since we recorded this episode—and in it he deals with many of these same issues; it's well-worth your consideration. Ploductivity: A Practical Theology of Work & Wealth — https://amzn.to/2SfAp7B

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The concept of the bride-price is salt in the wound of our sensitive, politically correct, romance-is-everything society. Daughters being rewarded to warriors, and arranged marriages, are barbaric enough. But then the groom has to pay the father-of-the-bride money as compensation?  This is basically purchasing yourself a wife like she’s a piece of property, right? Well, no, it’s not that simple—or that barbaric.

We have to understand that the family, for most of history, was an economic unit of society. Your household was your livelihood. And children were a  blessing not just because they’re a delight to have around, but because they contributed to the household economy—and with numbers come stability and security.

In today's mini-episode, Pastor Toph explains this idea of the bride-price, and what exactly is going on in 1 Samuel 18:17–27.

To learn more about this theology of the productive household, check out these helpful resources:

Alastair Roberts has a very helpful introduction to the biblical view of the household as a social and economic unit in this video — https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2018/08/01/theology-of-the-household/.

C.R. Wiley is an exceptional resource on all things productive household. Follow him on Facebook, and then get his books, Man of the House (https://amzn.to/31We0iz), and The Household and the War for the Cosmos (https://amzn.to/2Nptd7Z). (See some intro videos to Wiley's work here: https://tavernhall.wordpress.com/2019/09/03/households-and-warring-over-the-cosmos/).

One more book that would be very helpful in understanding how the ancient world in general, and the biblical cultures particularly, understood the household, marriage, and the family, is Marriage and Family in the Biblical World (https://amzn.to/2W0x7s8).

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What's really going on with that song the women sing about Saul and David: "Saul has struck down his thousands, and David his ten thousands?"

In today's mini-episode, Pastor Toph explains a feature of Hebrew poetry that may give us a fuller understanding of this account in 1 Samuel 18:7.

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We recently sat down with missionary and Bible teacher, Gene Cunningham, and asked him about the pandemic panic (and a few other things). Here's a short preview. Be watching for the full episode!

We've always heard that David was a scrawny, redheaded, snot-nosed little kid... but that's not the picture Scripture gives us.

Put aside your preconceived notions about David. We’re learning about the real man—the 11th-century  shepherd who became the most powerful military leader in Israel… The king whose descendent will sit on the throne of Israel and rule all nations with a rod of iron, establishing perfect and everlasting justice and peace over all the earth—far as the curse is found.

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Another episode from Pastor Toph's blog, explaining why it is that God looks on the heart: because only He can.

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This is the audio of Pastor Toph's blog post explaining why John MacArthur told Beth Moore to go home, why everyone laughed, what could possibly be wrong with listening to Beth Moore, and why she really ought to... go home, that is.

Here's the relevant audio clip of the conversation—https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NeNKHqpBcgc.

And here are some further resources for a biblical understanding of the issues:

Doug Wilson on Beth Moore—https://youtu.be/BZRlPoLOZRE

Toby Sumpter has a helpful post on the "go home" controversy here—https://www.tobyjsumpter.com/beth-moore-john-macarthur-and-clobbering-girls-in-football/

Rachel Jankovic—a woman worth following—is excellent, both here (https://www.facebook.com/racheljankovic/photos/a.416170895090349/3364905026883573/?type=3&theater) and here (https://youtu.be/3bVA83JF0Qs).

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