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Society & Culture 41 rész We are here for people who have discovered how challenging day-to-day marriage is and are searching for a resource to grow through the process.
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Your Family Mission, Budget and Agenda (MBA) in less than 15 minutes EPS 47
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????Get The Free Bonus Content For This Episode Free ????
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In this episode, you will learn how to invest 15 minutes and get your family MBA on paper and on purpose? ????
How to make a family mission statement using just 3 short questions.
How to make a functional budget using just 2 questions.
How to make a family agenda using just 2 questions.
Your marriage will immediately become more productive and better equipped to WIN.
https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/yourmarriagemba
In this episode, you will learn how to invest 15 minutes and get your family MBA on paper and on purpose? ????
How to make a family mission statement using just 3 short questions.
How to make a functional budget using just 2 questions.
How to make a family agenda using just 2 questions.
Your marriage will immediately become more productive and better equipped to WIN.
Why Your Spouse May HATE Your Apology EPS 46.5
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In this episode, you will learn …
✅How to Apologize Faster
✅When You Apologize You Need To Talk About How Your Actions Affected Your Spouse! How did it make them feel?
✅The best apology is changed behavior.
✅ In some cases, the apology needs to be as public as the offense.
✅ How To Turn Thorns Into Roses!
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In this episode, you will learn …
✅How to Apologize Faster
✅When You Apologize You Need To Talk About How Your Actions Affected Your Spouse! How did it make them feel?
✅The best apology is changed behavior.
✅ In some cases, the apology needs to be as public as the offense.
✅ How To Turn Thorns Into Roses!
Never Forget.... The people who want the best in their marriage... Invest in their marriage.
Treating Your Argument Hangover FT. The Freemans EPS 46
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In this episode, you will learn …
✅[04:00] Why Communication is not one-size-fits-all!
✅[12:30] Expectations have to be expressed and managed! When life goes changes your circumstances you must reset expectations
✅[21:30] How ALL conflict can be turned into a good exchange.
✅[25:30] The 5 Rs to Repair a Conflict
✅[31:15] How To Time Travel and Change Your Spouse Memories About Arguments.
✅[33:30] How To Risk Rejection To Reconnect With My Spouse
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✅[04:00] Why Communication is not one-size-fits-all!
✅[12:30] Expectations have to be expressed and managed! When life goes changes your circumstances you must reset expectations
✅[21:30] How ALL conflict can be turned into a good exchange.
✅[25:30] The 5 Rs to Repair a Conflict
✅[31:15] How To Time Travel and Change Your Spouse Memories About Arguments.
✅[33:30] How To Risk Rejection To Reconnect With My Spouse
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How To Have The Perfect Family Budget EPS 45
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In this episode, we explore How To Have The Perfect Family Budget. ????
Top 3 ???? s Dropped:
(04:42) How To Analyze Your Family's Stewardship Of God's Resources????
(15:48) How To Fight For Agreement Over Your Family Budget ????
(27:03): Keep Trying Different Methods Until One Sticks ????
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In this episode, we explore How To Have The Perfect Family Budget. ????
Top 3 ???? s Dropped:
(04:42) How To Analyze Your Family's Stewardship Of God's Resources????
(15:48) How To Fight For Agreement Over Your Family Budget ????
(27:03): Keep Trying Different Methods Until One Sticks ????
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Your Marriage Assessment EPS 44
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In this episode, we explore how quarantine has affected your marriage!
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Top 3 Gems Dropped:
1. This Pandemic is a magnifier ???? of where you're really at in your marriage and life. It exposed where we really were.
2. Sin is a ???? virus and cancer and seed that grows if not taken care of. The silent treatment is like pouring gas on the fire or letting a weed grow in your garden.
3. There's an opportunity in this solitude. You could cultivate an intimacy that will support you in 2021.
Also, we are having a baby due in less than a week.
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Scripture Referenced: Go quickly and settle things with your accuser. Matt 5:25 It's to one's glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11
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In this episode, we explore how quarantine has affected your marriage!
Free Complimentary Bonus Video Here: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family
Top 3 Gems Dropped:
1. This Pandemic is a magnifier ???? of where you're really at in your marriage and life. It exposed where we really were.
2. Sin is a ???? virus and cancer and seed that grows if not taken care of. The silent treatment is like pouring gas on the fire or letting a weed grow in your garden.
3. There's an opportunity in this solitude. You could cultivate an intimacy that will support you in 2021.
Also, we are having a baby due in less than a week.
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Scripture Referenced: Go quickly and settle things with your accuser. Matt 5:25 It's to one's glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11
How To Help Your Spouse Be A Better Christian EPS 43
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Top 3 Gems Dropped:
1. We must help our spouse move from Unbelief To Belief in every area of their life.
2. Don't give your spouse so many compliments and criticism/corrections. They need to be reminded of the covenant relationship they have with God in Christ more than they need your words.
3. Use the 4 G's to help them know their identity in Christ.
God is great – so we don’t have to be in control
God is glorious – so we don’t have to fear others
God is good – so we don’t have to look elsewhere
God is gracious – so we don’t have to prove ourselves
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Top 3 Gems Dropped:
1. We must help our spouse move from Unbelief To Belief in every area of their life.
2. Don't give your spouse so many compliments and criticism/corrections. They need to be reminded of the covenant relationship they have with God in Christ more than they need your words.
3. Use the 4 G's to help them know their identity in Christ.
God is great – so we don’t have to be in control
God is glorious – so we don’t have to fear others
God is good – so we don’t have to look elsewhere
God is gracious – so we don’t have to prove ourselves
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How to Make Disciples Like Jesus Without Losing Your Family EPS 42
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Top 3 Gems Dropped:
1. Disciples Make Disciples (It's not our pastor's job... it's on us)
2. It's NOT family or mission... It's Family On Mission
3. Integration > Addition. We don't add disciple-making into our schedule we integrate it into our lives.
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Top 3 Gems Dropped:
1. Disciples Make Disciples (It's not our pastor's job... it's on us)
2. It's NOT family or mission... It's Family On Mission
3. Integration > Addition. We don't add disciple-making into our schedule we integrate it into our lives.
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How to Balance A Busy Schedule And Get Your Quality Time Back EPS. 41
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Big Ideas:
1. Find Out What's Really Important To Your Family. Stop assuming you understand the priorities of your spouse.
2. Write down what's important. Develop an ideal week on paper and on purpose.
3. Give grace. The secret to an ideal week and a mission statement is giving yourself the grace to aim for it week after week.
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1. Find Out What's Really Important To Your Family. Stop assuming you understand the priorities of your spouse.
2. Write down what's important. Develop an ideal week on paper and on purpose.
3. Give grace. The secret to an ideal week and a mission statement is giving yourself the grace to aim for it week after week.
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How Godly Families Fight For Social Justice l Eps. 40
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1. Jesus cares about Justice.
2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.
3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.
4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.
5. Engage In The Economy. Using your dollar to only support businesses that share your values.
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2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.
3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.
4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.
5. Engage In The Economy. Using your dollar to only support businesses that share your values.
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Why We Cheat And What To Do After l EPS 39
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3 Big Ideas:
1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault.
2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.
3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.
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1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault.
2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.
3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.
Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family
-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.
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How To Partner With Your Spouse Without Policing Them l EPS 38
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Colossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another...
3 Big Ideas:
1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide
2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed
3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your Relationship
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3 Big Ideas:
1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide
2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed
3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your Relationship
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How To Reclaim Intimacy and Reconnect After Cheating l EPS 37
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Ephesians 4:32 And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.
3 Big Ideas:
1. The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.
2. We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.
3. Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.
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-The in-depth assessments
-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
3 Big Ideas:
1. The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.
2. We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.
3. Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.
Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family
-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.
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-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
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-The in-depth assessments
-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
How To Cultivate Intimacy and Improve your Sex Life l Eps 36
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Excuse the audio quality of this interview, but we HAD to share this interview with you. There are TOO many gems in here for us to keep it hidden.
There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWN (MARRIED. CULTURED. KNOWN.)
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-The in-depth assessments
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There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWN (MARRIED. CULTURED. KNOWN.)
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-The in-depth assessments
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How To Craft The Perfect Apology (Inner Circle January Episode UNLOCKED) l Eps 35
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This episode is from our inner circle family. We don't do this often but we UNLOCKED it for you.
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-The in-depth assessments
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How To Hear and Obey God's Voice l EPS 34
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3 Big Ideas:
1. We need obedience driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.
2. We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss.
3. We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act.
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[02:00] Phenomenal Family Shoutouts
[03:45] How to know the difference between curriculum-driven discipleship versus obedience driven discipleship.
[05:45] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me?
[06:15] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me in scripture?
[07:15] God speaking can feel like a speed bump. (see Jonah 1:4)
[08:35] God speaking can feel like a brick wall. (Acts 16:6)
[09:45] God speaking can feel like a window.
[10:15] God speaking can feel like a mirror. (Luke 15:17-20)
[10:45] How do I REFLECT and DISCUSS what God it saying to me?
[13:45] How do I PLAN what I'm going to do about it?
[17:45] We need ACCOUNTABILITY.
[21:00] We must ACT. Matthew 7:24-29
[22:30] Recap
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-The in-depth assessments
-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
1. We need obedience driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.
2. We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss.
3. We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act.
Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode:
www.marriage.podia.com/hearandobey
[02:00] Phenomenal Family Shoutouts
[03:45] How to know the difference between curriculum-driven discipleship versus obedience driven discipleship.
[05:45] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me?
[06:15] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me in scripture?
[07:15] God speaking can feel like a speed bump. (see Jonah 1:4)
[08:35] God speaking can feel like a brick wall. (Acts 16:6)
[09:45] God speaking can feel like a window.
[10:15] God speaking can feel like a mirror. (Luke 15:17-20)
[10:45] How do I REFLECT and DISCUSS what God it saying to me?
[13:45] How do I PLAN what I'm going to do about it?
[17:45] We need ACCOUNTABILITY.
[21:00] We must ACT. Matthew 7:24-29
[22:30] Recap
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-The in-depth assessments
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Securing The (Real Estate 101) Bag FT. Chris Winstead l Eps 33
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4 Big Ideas:
1. Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved.
2. You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund etc.
3. On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough equity built in to profit from selling it.
4. If you’re the "friend with the good job”. Buy a house and have your friends pay you rent.
Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode:
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[01:00] Introduction of Chris Winstead www.AllCitySA.com
[01:30] Chris calls you the Phenom-ily! *sorry -LJ*
[02:00] What is the simplified process of buying a house? Is it complicated?
[03:15] How much money do you need in your bank account in order to buy a house?
[04:30] Why go to FB and IG first?
[05:00] What is equity and why should you understand it?
[06:30] Your money is better spent growing in your home than growing in your bank account.
[07:00] Renting vs Buying a Home
[08:30] Securing the Bag means keeping the bag by not paying rent forever. Pay yourself by purchasing a home.
[09:00] Check out the home you’re going to buy at different times of the day
[10:00] Why have your landlord raise your rent when you can have a fixed mortgage?
[12:00] How long do I have to stay in a house if I buy it? What’s the process of selling?
[17:00] What are some successful ways to profit from real estate? What if I’m not married?
[19:00] Recap
[21:00] Lighting Round Questions
Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family
-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.
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-Phenomenal Community of like-minded people committed to improving their marriages as well so that you can grow together.
One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching
-The in-depth assessments
-Live 1-on-1 coaching gives you a personalized road map to making your marriage everything it was meant to be.
1. Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved.
2. You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund etc.
3. On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough equity built in to profit from selling it.
4. If you’re the "friend with the good job”. Buy a house and have your friends pay you rent.
Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode:
www.marriage.podia.com/realestate
[01:00] Introduction of Chris Winstead www.AllCitySA.com
[01:30] Chris calls you the Phenom-ily! *sorry -LJ*
[02:00] What is the simplified process of buying a house? Is it complicated?
[03:15] How much money do you need in your bank account in order to buy a house?
[04:30] Why go to FB and IG first?
[05:00] What is equity and why should you understand it?
[06:30] Your money is better spent growing in your home than growing in your bank account.
[07:00] Renting vs Buying a Home
[08:30] Securing the Bag means keeping the bag by not paying rent forever. Pay yourself by purchasing a home.
[09:00] Check out the home you’re going to buy at different times of the day
[10:00] Why have your landlord raise your rent when you can have a fixed mortgage?
[12:00] How long do I have to stay in a house if I buy it? What’s the process of selling?
[17:00] What are some successful ways to profit from real estate? What if I’m not married?
[19:00] Recap
[21:00] Lighting Round Questions
Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family
-Personal Connection so that you get all your questions answered.
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The 3 Main Ingredients For Love l Eps 32
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This episode is all about increasing the passion, intimacy, and commitment in your marriage. You don't want to miss the laughs and lessons shared in this shareworthy episode.
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8 Mistakes You Don't Want To Make For Newlyweds l Eps 31
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24. rész
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[03:30] #1 You don't know how to limit frustrations in your marriage.
[08:30] #2 You don't have a shared family budget for your time or your money.
[12:00] #3 You don't have a core mission or vision for your family.
[16:00] Revised James Family Mission Statement
[18:00] #4 You don't have agreed-upon rules for when you fight.
[22:00] #5 You believe that once you get married you'll live "happily ever after".
[23:30] #6 You believe that your marriage will solve personal problems that only God can fix.[26:30] #7 You stonewall when arguing.
[30:00] #8 You criticize or attack your spouse's character instead of the behavior their doing.
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[03:30] #1 You don't know how to limit frustrations in your marriage.
[08:30] #2 You don't have a shared family budget for your time or your money.
[12:00] #3 You don't have a core mission or vision for your family.
[16:00] Revised James Family Mission Statement
[18:00] #4 You don't have agreed-upon rules for when you fight.
[22:00] #5 You believe that once you get married you'll live "happily ever after".
[23:30] #6 You believe that your marriage will solve personal problems that only God can fix.[26:30] #7 You stonewall when arguing.
[30:00] #8 You criticize or attack your spouse's character instead of the behavior their doing.
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How To Set Boundaries With People Outside Your Marriage l Eps. 30
28 perc
23. rész
Pleasure without boundaries quickly turns dark. This episode will teach you why and how to set healthy boundaries with people outside your marriage.
Don't fulfill legitimate needs in illegitimate ways.
Any friendships without boundaries quickly turns dark.
Don't put yourself in tough situations to have to make tough decisions.
Sometimes the best way to say no is to not give yourself the opportunity to say yes.
Don't use the "brother/ sister in Christ" vocabulary to allow you to put yourself in intimate situations.
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Don't fulfill legitimate needs in illegitimate ways.
Any friendships without boundaries quickly turns dark.
Don't put yourself in tough situations to have to make tough decisions.
Sometimes the best way to say no is to not give yourself the opportunity to say yes.
Don't use the "brother/ sister in Christ" vocabulary to allow you to put yourself in intimate situations.
This episode is brought to you by:
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9 Ways The Gospel Transforms Our Marriage l Eps 29
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22. rész
Take At Least 1 Action Step from this episode and APPLY it. (James 1:22-25)
1. Because of the gospel, Christians have become new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17).
2. Because of the gospel, we are forgiven (Ephesians 1:7).
3. Because of the gospel, we can forgive, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32).
4. Because of the gospel, we are accepted by God.
5. Because of the gospel, sin's ruling power over us is broken (Romans 6:6, 14).
6. Because of the gospel, we have access to God through Christ (Hebrews 4:14-16).
7. Because of the gospel, we have hope (Romans 5:1-4).
8. Because of the gospel, Christ dwells in us by his Holy Spirit (Galatians 3:13-14).
9. Because of the gospel, we have power to fight and overcome remaining sin.
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1. Because of the gospel, Christians have become new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17).
2. Because of the gospel, we are forgiven (Ephesians 1:7).
3. Because of the gospel, we can forgive, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32).
4. Because of the gospel, we are accepted by God.
5. Because of the gospel, sin's ruling power over us is broken (Romans 6:6, 14).
6. Because of the gospel, we have access to God through Christ (Hebrews 4:14-16).
7. Because of the gospel, we have hope (Romans 5:1-4).
8. Because of the gospel, Christ dwells in us by his Holy Spirit (Galatians 3:13-14).
9. Because of the gospel, we have power to fight and overcome remaining sin.
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Biggest Problem In Marriage Ft. Speaker Felice Mattheui l Episode 28
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21. rész
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How Submission Should Look In Marriage Ft. Married Cultured Known Podcast l Episode 27
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20. rész
This Weeks Homework:
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7 Common Mistakes In First Year Of Marriage l Episode 26
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19. rész
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Debt Free Degree Ft. Anthony ONeal l Episode 25
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18. rész
[05:00] Some questions about Anthony's Unique Story/ Past
Debt Free Degree Specific Questions
-Tell me about your new book, Debt-Free Degree.
[14:00] You say that you can go to school debt-free. How can you do it?
[18:30] It’s never too early to plan. What should parents do each year to start planning for life after high school?
[22:00] So you have a junior or senior in high school and no money saved for college. What do you say to that parent?
[24:30] What’s some advice parents can give to their kids so that they can be successful once they’re in college.
[28:30] Lighting Round Questions
Anthony ONeal- https://www.anthonyoneal.com/resources/
Dave Ramsey Solutions
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Debt Free Degree Specific Questions
-Tell me about your new book, Debt-Free Degree.
[14:00] You say that you can go to school debt-free. How can you do it?
[18:30] It’s never too early to plan. What should parents do each year to start planning for life after high school?
[22:00] So you have a junior or senior in high school and no money saved for college. What do you say to that parent?
[24:30] What’s some advice parents can give to their kids so that they can be successful once they’re in college.
[28:30] Lighting Round Questions
Anthony ONeal- https://www.anthonyoneal.com/resources/
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7 Tips To Deal With In-Laws l Eps. 24
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17. rész
7 Tips To Deal With In-Laws l Eps. 24
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[1:30] - Shoutout to MotivatedByBridget, QueensANC
SPECIAL SHOUTOUT To Our First Founding Student Abigail S.
[04:15] Work With Your Spouse
[05:45] Set Boundaries and Limits. This is where you can use your family's core values.
[11:00] Enforce the Boundaries and Limits
[16:15] Important ACTION STEP
[18:00] Communicate Directly
[23:00] Know Yourself and Be Yourself
[24:20] Honor the Relationship between your spouse and your in-laws
[25:50] Don't Fumble the Inheritance
[29:15] Quick Recap and Action Steps
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[1:30] - Shoutout to MotivatedByBridget, QueensANC
SPECIAL SHOUTOUT To Our First Founding Student Abigail S.
[04:15] Work With Your Spouse
[05:45] Set Boundaries and Limits. This is where you can use your family's core values.
[11:00] Enforce the Boundaries and Limits
[16:15] Important ACTION STEP
[18:00] Communicate Directly
[23:00] Know Yourself and Be Yourself
[24:20] Honor the Relationship between your spouse and your in-laws
[25:50] Don't Fumble the Inheritance
[29:15] Quick Recap and Action Steps
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4 Ways To Resolve Budget Fights l Episode 22
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16. rész
This episode is all about improving your communication around budgeting! Enjoy!
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6 Things Submission Is Not l Episode 21
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15. rész
6 Things That Submission is Not
[04:15] Submission doesn't mean always agreeing with your husband
[06:45] Don't pay the submit date on your wife!
[7:10] Submission does not mean leaving your brain at the altar.
Exodus 4:25 Proverbs 31:16
[11:15] Submission does not mean you do not try to influence your husband.
[15:15] Submission is not putting the will of the husband before the will of Christ.
[18:00] John Crist - Check Your Heart ft. DJ Mykael V, nobigdyl. & 1K Phew
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKfOtip07B4
[18:45] Submission does not mean getting all of her spiritual strength through her husband.
[20:40] Submission does not mean living or acting in fear.
https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/six-things-submission-is-not
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[04:15] Submission doesn't mean always agreeing with your husband
[06:45] Don't pay the submit date on your wife!
[7:10] Submission does not mean leaving your brain at the altar.
Exodus 4:25 Proverbs 31:16
[11:15] Submission does not mean you do not try to influence your husband.
[15:15] Submission is not putting the will of the husband before the will of Christ.
[18:00] John Crist - Check Your Heart ft. DJ Mykael V, nobigdyl. & 1K Phew
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKfOtip07B4
[18:45] Submission does not mean getting all of her spiritual strength through her husband.
[20:40] Submission does not mean living or acting in fear.
https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/six-things-submission-is-not
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39 Unique Ways to Say I Love You Pt. 1 l Episode 19
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14. rész
39 Ways To Use The 5 Love Languages To Tell Your Spouse "I Love You!"
[01:20] 8 Tips For Words of Affirmation
[11:50] A Special Game We Play
[13:00] 7 Tips For Quality Time
[18:50] 9 Receiving Gifts
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[01:20] 8 Tips For Words of Affirmation
[11:50] A Special Game We Play
[13:00] 7 Tips For Quality Time
[18:50] 9 Receiving Gifts
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Darkflix- Overcoming Pornography l Episode 18
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13. rész
This is a valuable conversation about our personal experience with pornography and how God has delivered us from its grasp. This episode is for anyone overcoming this habit or someone who is striving with people overcoming this habit. This is our most powerful and transparent episode to date.
[02:00] What was the allure?
[05:00] What was the effect of watching Darkflix?
[09:45] When did you make that decision to stop?
[12:00] How did God save us from Darkflix?
[21:00] What if my spouse watches Darkflix?
[23:00] How to deal with the shame?
[28:00] What would you say to someone trying to be free?
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[02:00] What was the allure?
[05:00] What was the effect of watching Darkflix?
[09:45] When did you make that decision to stop?
[12:00] How did God save us from Darkflix?
[21:00] What if my spouse watches Darkflix?
[23:00] How to deal with the shame?
[28:00] What would you say to someone trying to be free?
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3 Core Values That Saved Our Marriage l Episode 17
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12. rész
We describe 3 core values that saved our marriage from a HEATED argument. You'll want to hear them all and how we applied them!
[01:30] Want your question answered? Leave a VM Here: (361) 857-7302
[02:00] What qualities should I look for in a spouse? From Proverbs 31
-Does this person follow through on his word?
-Does this person make you stronger?
-Is this person hard-working?
-Is this person generous and hospitable?
-Is this person wise?
-Does this person trust Jesus
[05:00] What happened?!?!
[07:30] Core Value: Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.
[08:00] Core Value: Truth has a time and a vehicle.
[10:00] Core Value: We operate on God’s Time and God’s Dime.
[12:30] Mission Statement: Reflect God Reflect Greatness
[15:15] Bonus: Blame and Shame in Marriage
[17:15] Recap & 3 HW Assignments
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[01:30] Want your question answered? Leave a VM Here: (361) 857-7302
[02:00] What qualities should I look for in a spouse? From Proverbs 31
-Does this person follow through on his word?
-Does this person make you stronger?
-Is this person hard-working?
-Is this person generous and hospitable?
-Is this person wise?
-Does this person trust Jesus
[05:00] What happened?!?!
[07:30] Core Value: Don’t make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.
[08:00] Core Value: Truth has a time and a vehicle.
[10:00] Core Value: We operate on God’s Time and God’s Dime.
[12:30] Mission Statement: Reflect God Reflect Greatness
[15:15] Bonus: Blame and Shame in Marriage
[17:15] Recap & 3 HW Assignments
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5 Love Languages l Episode 16
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11. rész
In this episode, we explore the 5 love languages.
[01:30] How to keep your God as your source instead of your spouse?
[09:30] Why should we study the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman?
There are other booksThe 5 love languages for kids, teenagers, singles & military edition.
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/
[11:15] What are the 5 emotional Love Languages?
l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “
2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”
3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would like. For example, cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.
4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention. Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and listening.
5. Physical touch-holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.
[13:30] Why are they called different “Languages”? If you have to communicate with another person and you don’t speak their language it’s just pointing grunting and broken communication. No matter how hard you try to communicate love in your primary language IF you don’t speak your spouse's language it will not translate into them feeling loved.
[14:30] Marriage Confession = We did not speak each other’s language.
[20:20] Who cares... Love is love, right? No. Being sincere is not enough. We must be willing to learn our spouse's primary love languages and choose to love them in their language for a long period of time (without conditions). Learn your language to effectively share with your spouse what you want.
[21:30]Where can they find the test? Take the Love Languages Quiz. Find out yours and your spouses. Link in description. https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
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[01:30] How to keep your God as your source instead of your spouse?
[09:30] Why should we study the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman?
There are other booksThe 5 love languages for kids, teenagers, singles & military edition.
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/
[11:15] What are the 5 emotional Love Languages?
l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “
2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”
3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would like. For example, cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.
4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention. Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and listening.
5. Physical touch-holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all expressions of love.
[13:30] Why are they called different “Languages”? If you have to communicate with another person and you don’t speak their language it’s just pointing grunting and broken communication. No matter how hard you try to communicate love in your primary language IF you don’t speak your spouse's language it will not translate into them feeling loved.
[14:30] Marriage Confession = We did not speak each other’s language.
[20:20] Who cares... Love is love, right? No. Being sincere is not enough. We must be willing to learn our spouse's primary love languages and choose to love them in their language for a long period of time (without conditions). Learn your language to effectively share with your spouse what you want.
[21:30]Where can they find the test? Take the Love Languages Quiz. Find out yours and your spouses. Link in description. https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
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5 Tips to Survive The Honeymoon Phase l Episode 15
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[04:00] New Content. What is the honeymoon phase?
[08:30] What are 5 tips to survive the Honeymoon Phase? How should we go through the honeymoon phase?
1. Be aware of your mental state.
2. Surround yourself with Christian fellowship that can hold you accountable.
3. Base your boundaries and commitments on God's word.
4. Redefine love to mean sacrifice.
5. Constant isn’t common. See constant consistency as concrete and steadfastness. It’s sexy!
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[08:30] What are 5 tips to survive the Honeymoon Phase? How should we go through the honeymoon phase?
1. Be aware of your mental state.
2. Surround yourself with Christian fellowship that can hold you accountable.
3. Base your boundaries and commitments on God's word.
4. Redefine love to mean sacrifice.
5. Constant isn’t common. See constant consistency as concrete and steadfastness. It’s sexy!
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Securing The Bag l Episode 14
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9. rész
This episode is all about securing the bag.
A budget doesn't limit your freedom. A budget gives you freedom. It's permission to spend. It allows you to give generously, spend wisely and save for the future
I enjoy being on the same page as Lashaude. Being able to agree on goals with him and as a team see our goal accomplished.
"Baby Step 1" and the others were fun for me to accomplish. It made me feel like we were a couple moving forward and getting stuff done.
-It'll take about 3 months to get the budget consistent.
- We were made to be a river, not a reservoir. Blessings were meant to flow through you not just to you. They are from God through you to others.
Hurt people hurt people. Blessed people bless people
-Stewardship means "We own nothing.“
"Every faculty you have, your power of thinking or of moving your limbs from moment to moment, is given you by God. If you devoted every moment of your whole life exclusively to His service, you could not give Him anything that was not in a sense His own already."
– C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
A budget puts your money on a mission. You can have more fun with a plan than you can without one. If you fail to plan then you plan to fail.
Saving $1000 is not for if something happens but WHEN something happens. These are wise healthy habits that inheriting wealth can’t teach you.
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A budget doesn't limit your freedom. A budget gives you freedom. It's permission to spend. It allows you to give generously, spend wisely and save for the future
I enjoy being on the same page as Lashaude. Being able to agree on goals with him and as a team see our goal accomplished.
"Baby Step 1" and the others were fun for me to accomplish. It made me feel like we were a couple moving forward and getting stuff done.
-It'll take about 3 months to get the budget consistent.
- We were made to be a river, not a reservoir. Blessings were meant to flow through you not just to you. They are from God through you to others.
Hurt people hurt people. Blessed people bless people
-Stewardship means "We own nothing.“
"Every faculty you have, your power of thinking or of moving your limbs from moment to moment, is given you by God. If you devoted every moment of your whole life exclusively to His service, you could not give Him anything that was not in a sense His own already."
– C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
A budget puts your money on a mission. You can have more fun with a plan than you can without one. If you fail to plan then you plan to fail.
Saving $1000 is not for if something happens but WHEN something happens. These are wise healthy habits that inheriting wealth can’t teach you.
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Call Into The Show
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Keys To Communication Ft. FELICE MATHIEU l Episode 13
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This episode is all about communication.
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Creating Family Mission and Vision Statements
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This 20-minute podcast episode lays out the James Family mission and vision statements that will empower you to form mission and vision statements for your family! This episode will equip you with the words and verbs needed to structure your family's core values.
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Five Marriage Changing Tips For Today Ft. DOM-LET l Episode 12
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How To Fight Fair Mini-Episode
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How To Better the Quality of Arguments l Mini-episode
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Vows That Shape Your Marriage Part 1 l Episode 11
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We analyze the vows that I made to my wife. We reflect on the purpose and plan we expressed on our wedding day. Also, my wife grades me on my performance so far.
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3 Ways To Overcome Poison From Our Past l Episode 10
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[02:20] What’s the topic for today? How the past is poisoning the present.
[03:00] Don’t believe the myth that you and your spouse both agree on the expectations for your marriage. Instead, remember that the more openly you work to express these expectations the more you can manage expectations.
[04:00] We are the plug for the certified SYMBIS Assessment.
[04:20] The expectations you bring into the marriage need to be expressed.
[05:35] What are the unspoken expectations that you have in your marriage? How are could they be negatively affecting or frustrating your marriage?
[06:40] It’s never to late to reevaluate the expectations that you have for your marriage with your spouse.
[06:50] What to do when you start to find out your spouse isn’t meeting your expectations?
[07:50] How are you going to manage your expectations? Frustration = unmet expectations.
[09:20] Your overall personal well being does affect your marriage. What personal challenges have you brought into the marriage but have neglected to address?
Overall well-being is a measure of emotional and spiritual health of the individuals within the marriage. A couple's relationship can only be as healthy as the two individuals within a relationship. Trying to build high levels of intimacy with others before you've properly managed your own emotional spiritual health is dangerous. This is where many couples find themselves searching for a spouse to complete them.
Marriage mathematics is not 2 halves make a whole it’s two (whole) people coming together as one.
Marriage mathematics should be two whole people become one (1+1=2) not two halves becoming one( ½ + ½ = 1).
[09:15] Podcast Giveaway Winners!
You don't want to put your spouse in a position the God was intended to feel. There's a certain level of healing reserved for God to perform not your spouse.
[15:05] Mutual empathy for one another can be the number one tool to resolve or avoid most conflicts within marriage.
[15:50] Here we discuss one of the best ideas we have for handling conflict.
1. Listen to their complaint.
2. Respond with “What I hear you saying is___.Am I right?”
3. If wrong go DIRECTLY back to step #1.
You don’t have to “win” or finish an argument on the spot. When needed ask for time to craft an appropriate response.
[18:20] Marriage is a process of leaving and cleaving.
Ephesians 5:31- "For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
[20:20] Top Flight Security of the World Craig!
[24:00] In what areas of your life do you feel that you need personal healing? How can your spouse best support your healing?
[24:20] Embrace the process of learning your REAL spouse. Are you committed to learning and loving your REAL spouse?
[25:00] Two reason’s you don’t know your REAL spouse. (1) They put their “best foot forward” while dating. (2) There are parts of your spouse that were (properly) not shared with you while dating.
[24:30] How To Enter The Giveaway
[30:35] Disenchantment can lead to REAL intimacy.We want to be 100% known AND 100% loved.
[32:35] The God we serve FULLY knows us and FULLY loves us. He aint leaving you! Philippians 1:6
[35:21] LaShaude’s Marriage Confession
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[02:20] What’s the topic for today? How the past is poisoning the present.
[03:00] Don’t believe the myth that you and your spouse both agree on the expectations for your marriage. Instead, remember that the more openly you work to express these expectations the more you can manage expectations.
[04:00] We are the plug for the certified SYMBIS Assessment.
[04:20] The expectations you bring into the marriage need to be expressed.
[05:35] What are the unspoken expectations that you have in your marriage? How are could they be negatively affecting or frustrating your marriage?
[06:40] It’s never to late to reevaluate the expectations that you have for your marriage with your spouse.
[06:50] What to do when you start to find out your spouse isn’t meeting your expectations?
[07:50] How are you going to manage your expectations? Frustration = unmet expectations.
[09:20] Your overall personal well being does affect your marriage. What personal challenges have you brought into the marriage but have neglected to address?
Overall well-being is a measure of emotional and spiritual health of the individuals within the marriage. A couple's relationship can only be as healthy as the two individuals within a relationship. Trying to build high levels of intimacy with others before you've properly managed your own emotional spiritual health is dangerous. This is where many couples find themselves searching for a spouse to complete them.
Marriage mathematics is not 2 halves make a whole it’s two (whole) people coming together as one.
Marriage mathematics should be two whole people become one (1+1=2) not two halves becoming one( ½ + ½ = 1).
[09:15] Podcast Giveaway Winners!
You don't want to put your spouse in a position the God was intended to feel. There's a certain level of healing reserved for God to perform not your spouse.
[15:05] Mutual empathy for one another can be the number one tool to resolve or avoid most conflicts within marriage.
[15:50] Here we discuss one of the best ideas we have for handling conflict.
1. Listen to their complaint.
2. Respond with “What I hear you saying is___.Am I right?”
3. If wrong go DIRECTLY back to step #1.
You don’t have to “win” or finish an argument on the spot. When needed ask for time to craft an appropriate response.
[18:20] Marriage is a process of leaving and cleaving.
Ephesians 5:31- "For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
[20:20] Top Flight Security of the World Craig!
[24:00] In what areas of your life do you feel that you need personal healing? How can your spouse best support your healing?
[24:20] Embrace the process of learning your REAL spouse. Are you committed to learning and loving your REAL spouse?
[25:00] Two reason’s you don’t know your REAL spouse. (1) They put their “best foot forward” while dating. (2) There are parts of your spouse that were (properly) not shared with you while dating.
[24:30] How To Enter The Giveaway
[30:35] Disenchantment can lead to REAL intimacy.We want to be 100% known AND 100% loved.
[32:35] The God we serve FULLY knows us and FULLY loves us. He aint leaving you! Philippians 1:6
[35:21] LaShaude’s Marriage Confession
